Ok. my brother is dating this really evil chick that i dont like. But she knows that im suppose to act like a christain. but why is it so hard for me to be so nice to her. and do you have any idea or tips on how to be nice to her,
2006-10-04 17:35:01 · 16 answers · asked by CGZ UP 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Why do you think she is Evil? Have you seen her do something - Talk to your brother about it and be straight up with him.. maybe you are seeing a side to her he hasnt.. Sooner or later the real her will come out and your brother will end it..
2006-10-04 17:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your strategy. Are you just trying to fake it? Then remember her birthday and get her a card. Compliment her on whatever. Invite her places that you really would rather she didn't go. Call her up even though you can't stand the things she says.
If you a trying to genuinely fix the situation, do some self examination and ask yourself why you feel you don't like her. Be honest. Make a list. Do you see any actual things that she's said or done that can only be interpreted as intentionally bad. Ask a friend for help if you don't think you can discern this for yourself--and not a friend who doesn't like her either! And remember the 7 times 70 rule. If you're remotely a Christian, you'll know what that rule says.
2006-10-05 00:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by ann a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its so hard to be nice to her because you dont like her. Obviously shes not someone that you would be nice to if it werent for your brother but I understand why you would want to act nice.
Honestly I would say avoid her if possible. I hate having to 'act' nice because its supposed to be the right thing to do. I'd feel like Im lying. Hope that people will see that shes not a nice person and she wont stick around for very long.
2006-10-05 00:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am christian girl too and i think it easy be nice to most people. if someones being mean i try avoid them and not talk to them so i would just stay away from her!!! What she do that so evil??? if it bed you should talk 2 your brother. Try 2 pray for her 2!!!
2006-10-05 12:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a real Christian woman such as yourself wouldn't have trouble being nice to someone. If your brother is only dating this woman don't take it so serious. If she's evil, then why is he with her. Are you sure it's not just you being jealous of her cause she is who you want to be?
2006-10-05 00:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's really hard to be nice to the person that you don't like, especially if that person is evil or if you are jelous with that girl. and if you are insecure with that gal... even me if i think my brother loves the girl so much than me so i just get mad with that girl...
2006-10-05 00:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by Juvylet G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fake is fake...don't MAKE yourself a FAKE...just try to stay away from her.Go do something in another room.If you have that...gut feeling..something ain't right with her..just wait,she'll give her-self away.Your brother was raised in the same house as you were.He will see through her in time...just keep quiet and wait.
2006-10-05 00:46:51 · answer #7 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to like people that you do not. If you are interesting in taking the higher path, be kind to her, be honest with her yet tactfull. That is showing respect, every human deserves respect, even if you dont like them.
2006-10-05 00:42:29 · answer #8 · answered by blastby2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exorcism.
2006-10-05 00:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, when you say you're a christian, you don't act like a "drama queen"... what i mean is you're in your real life, you're not acting in a drama or in a skit... why don't you share the word of God to that girl, if she rejects you, it's not you're fault to act your true feeling on her...
2006-10-05 00:39:40 · answer #10 · answered by danieldenzel2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋