2006-10-04 17:34:23 · 16 answers · asked by zklchrissy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go with your gut feelings. Ask him and then decide.
2006-10-04 17:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by easinclair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not one for playing games with a guy, especially with something like this. But...if you say "hey, we need to talk"...that gets his heart racing, makes him start thinking about what he's done (IF he's done anything at all) and gives him a few minutes to get what he's going to say (either the truth or a fantastic lie). I would make sure I was pretty positive I felt that he was doing something sneaky and then go for the kill. Act completely normal, do the regular routine. If you guys eat lunch/dinner together, ask him when he's not expecting it while he's eating. You get to see his face and body language precisely at the time of the question. When it comes to thinking your guy may be cheating, most likely you are feeling something on the lines of the truth. It's just a feeling. Kinda like they say about love, "you'll just know it".
2006-10-05 00:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love questions like this. Here's what to do: just ask him. Don't get all up in his face about it, but sit down with him and say "We need to talk." Remember, secrets kill relationships. If he can't be honest with you, then what are you doing with him? You deserve to have a man that is honest and up front no matter the circumstances. A really awesome relationship is one where both sides are best mates with each other. And best mates should always tell the truth. It really is easier than you think, it's just a matter of jumping over that mental hurdle that's holding you back. Hope this helps. Best of luck to ya!
~D.
2006-10-05 00:41:13 · answer #3 · answered by conservative_rocker1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simply put... His body language will give him away...
1) Is he distracted when he's around you?
2) When you mention love to him, does he want to change the subject?
3) Extremely nervous when you start talking about the future of the relationship?
Just try those, get him on a subject he's not comfortable talking with you about... Generally the body language gives it away...
Players can't hide the body language.
2006-10-05 00:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not ask him he will never tell you the truth. You are just going to have to see it first hand. Men are dogs. They give you the run around about how all we ever do is accuse them and push them until they go ahead and cheat.
2006-10-05 00:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not do anything at this point, like confronting him. You do not have valid information, since you said that you think- you did not say that you knew. Try to get valid information, observe and listen. Analyze why you feel that he is cheating. Your answer will come.
2006-10-05 00:47:19 · answer #6 · answered by RY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. I know it is a scary thing to do. thats the only way you will find out. then the thing is are you going to believe him. or you could follow him one day and dont let him know that you are following him
2006-10-05 00:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by crazy_mom1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit donw at dinner or whenever you see him and ask him if he is cheating on you cause if he says no and you think other wise tell him get out till you can be honest with me get out of my face
2006-10-05 00:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by Da Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you can either be straight up with him and ask him, hoping he wont sit there and lie to you. OR you can trick him into it. but it depends on why you think he's cheating. if its just paranoia. or you have facts.
2006-10-05 00:37:25 · answer #9 · answered by Ky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him - you'll know in your heart if he's being honest or not. Trust your own instincts
2006-10-05 02:19:44 · answer #10 · answered by leos1964 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋