My heart says one thing my head another. I know he isnt rite for me but in my heart i want him. My mind tells me stay clear of him or i will continue to be hurt by him. So far i have stayed away. Any advice on how to get over him and stop thinking of him.
2006-10-04 17:32:06 · 12 answers · asked by llacy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we were togeath for over 2 years
2006-10-04 17:33:05 · update #1
ignore him. move away from him.
2006-10-04 17:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself some medication for that. I mean.. head says one thing and heart says another? Are you a split personality?
If he was an ******** to you, you don't want to be treated bad and don't think you can trust him to do the right thing by you then you have to just cut yourself off cold turkey. It's the only way. Don't answer his calls etc and continue to stay away. You will always think of him but it will get better in time. It sucks but hey, there are millions of people all around the world going through the exact same thing. If there was a way to fix it quickly, we would all know about it by now but unfortunately, time is the only way to heal your hurts so if you remain out of contact, your already on your way.
2006-10-05 00:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually, when the situation is like that, what your mind tells you is correct. So congratulations! You used your brain! Because not all people do. And about getting over him, it won't happen right then and there. It takes time. Give yourself some time. Love yourself. You need that. Go and hang-out with your friends and family. Talk to your friends. Think of the nice things that you have in your life. Strive to be happy! Choose to be happy!
2006-10-05 00:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl u must be reading my life's story!!!! I am going thru the exact same thing and the only thing that I can tell you is to stay away!!! Dont call, text, IM, email or anything and dnt accept his. Find a new hobby or something else to do with your time. Hey thats what I have been doing and so far so good...Good Luck!!
2006-10-05 00:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by Teapot23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find some other guy and STOP comparing the new guy to this past dude! If he is hurting you now -it'll only get worse as time goes by. Do yourself a favor a get with a guy who will treat you like a lady!
2006-10-05 00:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start thinking of you. Get a different attitude. Go get a new haircut. Not a trim... a new haircut. Something totally different ! They say the best revenge is to live well. How much pain do you want to endure?It will go on if you LET it.So, no more. Time to get on with your happy life !
2006-10-05 00:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, i don't know how come that always happen to people? i mean how can you love some one who doing you wrong? My best advice is be true to yourself finding someone who is better or at your taste and dont give him the chance to seduce or lay his arsenals which he would do.Just focus on what you need and think about other guys who right now would die for your love (there are plenty of them in iraq lol)
2006-10-05 00:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by hutdast 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your mind...
The best way to stop thinking about him is to MOVE ON to another guy. If this is not possible right now, you need more time. Do something more constructive with your time that does not remind you of him. He'll be forgotten soon.
2006-10-05 00:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by James B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its funny and weird how being hurt by someone makes us want them more. And then when we are finally rejected by that person, it seems we are forever drawn to them, uncontrollably and powerfully. Break free from these natural tendencies that bind us to those that hurt us. Beleive that there are many others who want to care for you and give to you without hurting you, and you will attract it. Just simply forget him and move on.
2006-10-05 00:36:51 · answer #9 · answered by blastby2000 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
better divert ur mind on some other activity which u like the most or divert ur heart to another boy which ur mind says is perfect for u.as if u will listen only to ur heart later u will regret it.......
2006-10-05 00:36:53 · answer #10 · answered by daisy d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its deff hard.....but the best thing to do is move on if you honestly think he'll continue hurting you.
2006-10-05 00:36:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋