Am i so ugly that i can not get a good man?

Question

Ive been single for over a year and im ready to find a man to settle down with. so why cant i find one that wants me?

Answer 1

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There is someone special out there for you, you just have to be patient. Often, when you look for someone its not happening, its happening all the time when you are not looking.

Answer 2

Well your face looks very pretty from the little I can see in your picture. I can't see your body in your little pic, but if you have no bodily deformations then the only possible ugly thing could be weight. That's something you can work on; an ugly face has no natural cure! (If that's the case, take up bellydancing, it's probably the best exercise for the female body!)

I get the same feeling though. I often wonder how hideous I must be that no women like me! Might be a confidence thing but the reality remains that they don't like me! Doesn't that suck?

Answer 3

I don't think it is because of how you look. Besides if this is you on this pic, you're not ugly at all. Maybe you're just trying to hard to find someone. Do the men you see know that you are trying to settle down, some guys don't like to hear that. That scares them away.
Just let it happen, you'll find someone when you least expect it. Have fun in the mean time, and enjoy your freedom of not bing tied down to someone.

Answer 4

Get those thoughts out of your head! They are some of the most destructive things to your confidence. No matter what, you are beautiful! If you always remember this, then it will really begin to show in the way you conduct yourself. If you feel attractive, you will be attractive. Here's something that always boosts your self image and your confidence: Go to the gym. Even if you have a rockin', hourglass figure, working out makes you feel on top of the world. It works for me, so how can it hurt? Just be comfortable with yourself and men will find that so attractive. Hope this helps you out. Best of luck to ya, girl!
~D.

Answer 5

Honestly, I know exactly how you feel.. My last "real" relationship was in 2002.. I always thought something was wrong with me because of the fact that I would date all the losers who would lie and cheat.. I figured it was that I was too ugly and something had to seriously be wrong with me.. I listened to my mother ((which I rarely do)) and she said that it is impossible to love another before you love yourself and I know how cliche that is, but it is true. If you don't love yourself, no one else can love you.. You will never believe you are good enough for their love and will always doubt their feelings.. As women, we like to depend on men to make us happy, when we really need to be happy with ourselves first. I'm sure you are a beautiful woman, you just need to see that for yourself :-D

I hope this helped, I know it is a little long..

Answer 6

Hmm... can i ask you a question? where have you been looking?i mean you are very beautifull unless you attitudes says different. I dont see why would a guy date you. Now the real question is what is a a good man? i would consider myself as a good man so is everybody else. I guess you can never reach perfect but you can get close to it as long as you discover the beauty in what you have!!!!

Answer 7

Sweetie, its not about looking for Mr. Right, hes got to find you! The way you present yourself, looking for any other guy, you'll only attract jerks and unworthy guys if you make it that easy to get to you. Men like seeing self confidence in other women, and youve got to strut around like your the ****!
Beauty is not defined as how fast you can attract men, its about how you look at yourself inside. So be proud, itll take time. Dont stress though, itll come - but dont be desperate. Youre beautiful!

Answer 8

C'mon you aren't ugly. I was going to be a smartass like I usually am, but no you aren't. You're a pretty girl, and you will find a boyfriend. Until then, have fun and enjoy being single. Guys like women who are happy with themselves. Laugh, smile, show them you are enjoying yourself, and that you are enjoyable to be around. Someone will jump at you, trust me.

Answer 9

'ugly' has nothing to do with it. You have to be patience and don't be desperate in any way. Have confidence in yourself ~ confidence is key. You can be the most attractive woman in the world, but who will want you if you're down on yourself all the time? He will come...

Answer 10

for starters you wouldn't put your photo up if you really thought you were ugly. secondly if you really are not that pretty, there is a world of not so pretty men, that are great guys so stop putting so much emphasis on looks, that is probably why you have been single so long.