my aunt has been sick about 4 years now but in aug. she went way down hill my mom still did not tell her dad about this then she called me on mon. and said she only had about aweek if that my mom still did not tell her father about this she went to his house today and told him and said pack your bags we have to go now or we will not make it in time i told her she was wroung for this what do you think
2006-10-04 17:25:33 · 5 answers · asked by rradboys 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
sorry i must have said it wroung i think she should have told him in aug be for hes got put on life supp thank you jasmin
2006-10-04 17:34:21 · update #1
What a mean thing to do. It is obvious that there are reasons behind this that have not been mentioned but a father has a right to be with his daughter at such a time as this. The daughter and the father have a duty to try to resolve things before it is too late. The more lead time, the better the chances. I feel for the father as this must have been a horrible shock--somehow it seems it was by design. Shame on anyone who participated either actively or inactively. Karma, my dear is a *itch.
2006-10-04 18:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by ann a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has our aunt and grandfather had a falling out, if so there may be a ligitamate reason for why she has not. I would say no matter what a father has the right to know that his daughter is about to leave this world. Have you ask your aunt what she wants, if she would like to see her father for the last time to say goodbye, as by alright she should the last say in what she wants, not your step mum.
2006-10-04 17:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you were absolutely right for telling the father. He should have known as soon as the mother found out. The mother was absolutely wrong for doing what she did. I give you Props for being able to tell the father!
2006-10-04 17:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by twonew21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry luv, I disagree with you.... Even though your aunt didn't want her father to know, your Mom was right to tell him. He has a right to be by his daughter bedside to say his good byes. Also if they have un resolved issues, it is now time to address them and make peace. Be brave and support your family through these difficult times.
2006-10-04 17:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by Jasmine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he should have known long ago..but i do think she's right to get him and tell him now
2006-10-04 17:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋