if ur ex and u agreed to be friends with benefits, could it actually work? i did it a while back and it was horrible, should i do it again?
2006-10-04 17:13:23 · 25 answers · asked by amomg2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
duh u just answered your own question.
2006-10-04 17:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by wonder woo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, some people may say no, for you not to do it. but it all depends on how you feel! if you didnt like it then dont do it! but if you think it may work this time, then go ahead. just remember, friends with benefits isnt entitling you to "boyfriend and girlfriend". you're just friends that play around a little bit! tell him how you feel about that. if he doesnt respect your feelings, then he isnt worth the time to play with in the first place! being friends with an ex is hard though, i can understand that! but if there is chemestry between you two, things will work out good in the long run! mine have!
2006-10-04 17:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by brandi_tincher2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No u shldnt. Unfortunately, women are more emotionally attached and cannot distinguish friends with benefits from a guy I love and want to be with. Not every woman is like this but most are. The only way that this could truly work is if there was no other attraction there but a sexually one.
2006-10-04 17:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by Teapot23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course,I think so.My boyfriend said with me when we began that,if we have trouble in love,we must be friend when our love have an ending.Why don't we be friend when we have had a long time love each other?
Sometime,i think about the end of love,when one person still love the other,how can he(or she) takes a great delight on being friend with the ex when the ex has new partner?But,i sure that,what is mine will be mine.A friendship with ex-lover is very good and interesting.
2006-10-04 17:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by twinkle_girl286 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got several ex's and while we aren't bestest buddies we can talk and be civil to one another. Friends with benefits, naw, I couldn't do that one, there'd be too many memories, and I personally hate trips down Memory Lane.
2006-10-04 17:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by ron k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as many times as I have seen this happen...It has never been good. There seems to ALWAYS be someone who still has feelings, and it's harder on that person to let you go once they got you again. Sure the sex may be good, but I'd say don't do it!
Control the urge! lol it will only lead to heartache for someone.
2006-10-04 17:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it can work. But it only works if you and your ex are willing to forget about the past and focus on the here, now, and what will be.
2006-10-04 17:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by cubno1fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do that because your just being used for sex and thats it. My philosophy is DONT GO BACK IN LIFE always move forward because doing stuff like that only holds you down in the long run.
2006-10-04 17:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no my ex and i were on and off for like 3 years and it never worked. then we tried to be just friends and it just turned into a contest of whose life was better whose. just walk away and save yourself some pain and agony.
2006-10-04 18:24:21 · answer #9 · answered by Ditsey24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, History tends to repeat itself..I think you already answered yourself..It can be done, but, when one of you finds someone else..oh boy, break up again..Just remember, what happened before, and why you are broke up in the first place, I think you will find your answer. best of luck to you!
2006-10-04 17:16:58 · answer #10 · answered by janet r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the two of you can try but only if you feel it could work out. Good luck :-)
2006-10-04 19:41:51 · answer #11 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋