2006-10-04 17:05:31 · 14 answers · asked by undecided_guy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
uh, yeah. don't waste peoples time, she has better guys to do.
2006-10-04 17:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by devilUknow 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
"Dating" does not necessarily mean "serious relationship". The ritual of dating is a process for a man and a woman to get to know each other. If that leads to a long-lasting relationship, that's great, but if it doesn't, then it's just a natural process for the two people to separate and seek companionship from others. Actually, a man and a woman should be "dating" lots of different people in their youth or else they will never discover just what they really want in a future mate. (And I'm not talking about sex here.....I'm talking about real "dating".)
What would be wrong is if you "lead her on", making her think that your intentions are more serious than they are. You would not be acting wisely for her or yourself if you did this. Therefore, you should have an understanding from the beginning in that you will see each other for a while and see where it goes. Your honesty will be valued and even if you don't find a "girlfriend" you will probably find an everlasting friend.
2006-10-05 00:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by mannersplease 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Given that life is upredictable - dating included, how do you know you will be willing to end things with her in a few months? There's a chance you might fall for this girl and there's also a chance that the relationship won't survive to being able to last for long enough for you to end things.
Overall, if you're open with her, and depending on your reasons - ie, if you're moving away in a few months, for possibly ending the relationship, you should allow her the chance to make that choice herself. If she's fully informed and yet wants to date you, go for it and enjoy your time together.
It's great that you've consiered her enough to even sk this question - so clearly your heart is in the right place and you do have a conscince. Well done and I hope things go well for you.
2006-10-05 00:10:45 · answer #3 · answered by ausbabe29_megan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't disclosed your intentions as you have in the yahoo forum then you would most defiantly be wrong!
However, if she is in complete understanding that you guys will no longer be an item after a couple of months, providing that your not waiting for a current girlfriend to return then I see nothing wrong here.
2006-10-05 00:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by reporebuilder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your real question? Is it wrong of you to date a girl for SEX and then in a couple of months just break up with her because your bored. Yes it is. Let her know what your intention is and let her decide if she wants to play a role in it. Mean what you say and not what you said.
2006-10-05 00:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by purrfectsandcastle 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
What will you be doing after a few months? Have you discussed this with the girl that you are dating? Do not mislead her.
2006-10-05 13:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely, unless you tell her from the first date that you are going to break up with her.
2006-10-05 07:03:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-10-05 00:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by Beth P 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have no feelings for her why waste her time or your time, don't date someone you don't want to be with.
2006-10-05 00:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by Robin W 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If she knows and accepts that, no.
If you lead her to believe that you'll be with her for ever, yes.
2006-10-05 00:07:46 · answer #10 · answered by Odindmar 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes,its very wrong.
2006-10-05 01:32:00 · answer #11 · answered by hopeless 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋