There's this guy who I would consider myself "in love" with I guess. I think about him all the time. And the first time I met him, he was into me, but suddenly stopped talking to me. Well, 2 years later I asked him why he did, and he said because he was scared and afraid of hurting me and bringing me into the stuff he does (which I told him I dont' care about). So the first day I hang out with him after 2 years, he asks me out, but I said I would say yes later cuz I was in bit of a situation, cuz Ihad told him in a message that I would have told him yes if he asked me out, cuz he was planning on it last time, but got scared. And then this time he stops talking to me again, and I call him and ask if he wants to go out with me or not, and he says he doesn't know cuz he has **** going on. Which is like the same reason as last time he stopped talking to me. So I told him to just forget about going out with me until he sorts hisself out, and then maybe we would talk. It's been a month.advic
2006-10-04 16:49:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, it's been a month and some weeks, since I talked to him, and people told me I should wait that long if I wanted to talk to him again. Cuz I want to talk to him again. Or what else should I do to ease him to where he wont' be scared or what?
2006-10-04 16:50:28 · update #1
He sells weed.
2006-10-04 17:16:28 · update #2
no.
2006-10-04 16:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my suggestion would be to move on, i am currently in the same situation. I called it quits, I'm tired of games. I would rather the girl to tell me she's met somebody than for them to sot say anything at all. And if ever a guy or anybody tells you they dont want to hurt it means that they will.
2006-10-04 23:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt call him, if he really wanted to go out with you he wouldnt stop talking to you and actually try something with you...and he would be the one calling you.
2006-10-04 23:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by B* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out, be careful though, wat stuff does he do that he does not want to bring u into? are u sure this relationship is worth taking off d ground? think!!
2006-10-04 23:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by gal-next-dr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kid of **** is going on?
if hes a drug dealer/murderer . well . you might want to run
2006-10-04 23:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's afraid of what ? He's already so short of confidence.
2006-10-04 23:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by Omar Zuberi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-04 23:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by blaaah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋