I'm a guy, something is up with this girl. Ever since i got back to school, shes been different. One day, she starts resting her arm on my leg. I touch her shoulder, and she totally hugs me. She stole my hat for as long as she could. Riped a small hole in my shirt. Then all of a sudden its not as cosistant. So I brushed it off. Shes steals other peoples hats, wrestles with her male friend. But is still paying attention to me. Talks to me when ever she can. Then the other day, one of my friends asks whats up with us. That she may like me and is always touching me. Next day, she tries to write on my arm and it seems like she is trying to touch my hand. But when i asked her about it she says she does that to everyone, but i havent seen the same attention to anyone else. Today in the hall walked right into me.
Problems are shes bi and apprently wants to have a relationship with a girl but apparently its not happening. She hits others guys.
So does she like me and if so how do i ask her if she does without destroying this friendship
2006-10-04 16:45:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this would not destroy the relationship, go ahead and ask
2006-10-04 16:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Alright man! Sounds like things are going well for you. You didn't really have to do much and she's all over you. HOWEVER, you can't screw this up. This is the point where most guys in your position blow it all to hell. And I'm sure she's seen this before. You on the other hand don't have to be "most guys".
My advice to you is: play it off like girls do that to you all the time. I don't mean to come off as a pimp or something but just like it's not that big of a deal. She sounds fiesty so she's most likely gonna try harder. This would be your cue to ask for the digits. After you get the #, avoid her as much as possible for a couple of days and then call her. This drives women nuts, but in a good- no, a great way. Invite her out to have coffee with you or something casual like that, but don't pay.
All in all, do not be the "nice guy". How many times have you heard: "Well, he's a nice guy but..."? Avoid this and you'll be home free, my man. Hope this helps and best of luck to ya!
~D.
2006-10-04 16:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by conservative_rocker1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Destroy this friendship..." What friendship? She's very confused and socially disoriented. A wanderer looking for something she certainly won't recognize when she finds it. You have to get a grip and focus on the big picture - your life. Not somebody else's life - your life. Make an effort to get out and meet all different kinds of people, especially older folks. Contributes to your emotional growth. As you experience that growth everything takes on a different perspective and this little confused person will drop off your radar screen.
2006-10-04 17:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a big flirt. Especially if she has made it known that she feels she is bisexual. Seems like she really enjoys any kind of attention she can get. Maybe she is trying to get someone to REALLY notice her and ask her out, and you are one of her "targets." If you like her alot, you should just ask her. From what it sounds like, you had better get used to the fact that she flirts with everyone (even girls) if you are going to be more than friends, and that may end up getting annoying. If you're really into her, ask her.........if you're just a little bit interested, I'd say try to find someone a little more grounded and less starved for attention. You don't want to get involved and waste your energy trying to figure her out if it will end up being something that is full of drama and you regret later. My best to you, take care.
2006-10-04 16:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Adam,
Well i got to tell u this!!!If she is giving u more attention that means she likes u and maybe doesn't want to tell u and want u to make that move!!!!!So if u like this girl ask her out and if u don't like her tell her u just want to be her friend and that u don't like her touching u like that!!!!!And if u are worrying about after u guys break up and end up not being friends tell her what's up when ur goingt o ask her out !!!!And just hope for the best because you never know what she thinks about you so u just need to talk to her and see what she really wants!!!!!
Well good luck!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-04 17:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by fairy girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her close friends about this and know what is happening to her first. Then talk to her or drop hints if you do not want to destroy the friendship.
2006-10-04 16:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by little_angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that if she goes out with you, you'll help her set up a threesome with another girl. It's going to be tough on you, but somehow you'll find a way to deal with it.
Or you might have to do it several times to get the hang of it.......It could be worse.
2006-10-04 16:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by bardstale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, she likes you. You don't have to ask . She "hits" other guys ? I'm not sure what to think about that.
2006-10-04 16:51:52 · answer #8 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ADAM run as fast as you can away from this girl.
No longer will you have a "major girl problem"!
:-)
2006-10-04 16:48:11 · answer #9 · answered by ThomasR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would risk it if you ask, so you have to deicide if that's a chance you're willing to take.
2006-10-04 16:50:07 · answer #10 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋