She has a great personality and is cute but there are 2 major problems. One, she wears very red or pink lipstick (my pet peeve), and two, her teeth are black from all of the smoking (eww). I tried getting her to at least change her lipstick, but she doesn't want to and it really bugs me. Secondly, it is hard for me to makeout with her as she has black teeth from smoking and she is only in her late 20's. What should I do?
2006-10-04 16:31:48 · 10 answers · asked by JistheRealDeal 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok what is this?: "She has a great personality but..." What?! Alright dude, when you find someone that you think you will really connect with, there should be no "but's". You have to be satisfied and assured that you got the BEST girl you could possibly find. Most guys don't realize this but we can be picky. That's ok! Get out there and find the one for you that has no "but's". You deserve the very best and don't be afraid to admit this.
For example, you are offered a delicious chocolate cake that was baked by the gods themselves. But there's a pile of dog crap on the top. Would you still eat it? I figure not. Besides, when a woman knows that you won't settle for just anyone, they find that very attractive. Get it together and be picky. Hope this helps you out and best of luck to ya!
~D.
2006-10-04 16:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by conservative_rocker1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You told her about the lipstick, but did you mention the smoking? Remember there are different ways of asking people things. I have heard that you can get anyone to do just about anything if you ask it in the right way. If she really cares for you like you do for her, then she probably will at least try to change these small things.
2006-10-04 16:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by greenguy415 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about the smoking for one. There are just some things if you can't deal with them no matter what ou need to walk away. But if you think there is a way to get passed it then try. Me personally... i can't date someone that is smoking. I have tried, and if they dont end up quitting or slowing down then I walk away. I just can't stand it.
2006-10-04 16:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn 216 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Black teeth....um she needs some dental help...and lip stick.....just suck it up to be honest... I hate lip stick but let her have that....
as for the teeth...you could always buy a wheithing service from a dentist and say you won it on the radio and say that you don't need, ask if she knows someone who would want it.
2006-10-04 16:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by Cobalt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well nobody's perfect if aside from that you like everything about her, try to not look at her teeth so much and if you told her about the lipstick and she wont change (i think that's a little selfish) but go with it.
2006-10-04 16:37:14 · answer #5 · answered by caramela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your heart... I know it sounds gay but just do it. If u can't put up with it anymore you don't have to. Dump her. Thats it. You'll miss her at first but after a while you'll meet someone. Hope this helps
2006-10-04 16:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by Cool Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her some whitening strips or get her to the dentist to have them bleached.
2006-10-04 16:39:12 · answer #7 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude either you like her the way she is or you move on.
2006-10-04 16:37:51 · answer #8 · answered by trufate_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you already tried talking to her then its just time to break up or live with it
2006-10-04 16:36:50 · answer #9 · answered by Alexandrea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love her or leave her
2006-10-04 16:34:39 · answer #10 · answered by natallbad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋