i havent seen him (24) in person since last week. He contacted me online and was very distant online. Keep in mind he is Not diagnosed with bi-polar, but he has many qualities of it. I found through connections that he got into a fight with some guy at some bar over a stupid ex-girlfriend from 2 years ago who happened to be there by coincidence and wanted to apologize from the 2 years ago . The fight alone made him angry. A few days prior he was acting wierd too. Yesterday he contacted me online and was very distant which he does when he is in a wierd/depressed/angry mood. But then 20 min later he called me and told me that he lossed his part time job.That same night I called him because we were suppose to go out with a friend and he was so pissed over the phone. He had failed his test. He said he just wanted to be alone to clear his mind. I said fine and just told him i hope he feels better soon and call me when he can. Im just worried because 1 month ago he cut himself but not deep
2006-10-04 16:31:47 · 3 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Another main question is should i just leave him alone and have no contact until he cools off and contacts me first?
2006-10-04 16:32:37 · update #1
this guy has a lot of issues that need to be worked out. unless he has some super great "studly-man" qualities that you havnt mentioned and can be a cool guy, i suggest u lose the baggage and take a load off your mind. HE is >apparently< not capable of holding a job, he is getting into fights, has a short temper, has to call off dates due to "mind clearing," and what is this about him cutting himself? WOW you picked a real winner here.
seriously is this really that hard of a question for you?
STOP making yourself feel guilty for this guys idiotic problems and move on.
2006-10-04 16:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by Kyle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Why do you even want to have contact with somone as unpredictable and volatile as this? He's got some serious problems and doesn't want to face up to them and get help. And this is just the point: it's not that he has some deep emotional/mental issues that is troubling, it's that he doesn't want to face these demons and seek treatment. You're enabling this guy and letting him control you.
You've got to break this off, period, until he gets some serious therapy for his issues and you can see that he's sincere about sticking with treatment/recovery. If not, it's time for you to bail.
2006-10-04 23:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get some help for him. it is not good for him.
u r gonna end up losing him.
2006-10-04 23:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by Candice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋