do you firmly tell him no, yell at him or slap him?
or do you feel guilty when he says you misunderstood ?
2006-10-04 16:29:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
CEMENT SNEAKEERS.
2006-10-04 16:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the first time or two i play it off and brush it off hoping he will get the hint. Usually he does. If he doesn't I brush it off but in a very clear way that it is unwanted. If still that doesnt work then apparently he is no misunderstood and i tell him he is making me feel uncomfortable. Anything after that I walk away.
2006-10-04 23:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 216 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him whatever he just did was not acceptable to you because it felt like a come-on. If he meant it as a come-on, hopefully he will quit it. If he didn't mean for it to be a come-on, then maybe he will remember to rein in his enthusiasm with the opposite sex from now on and you will have just saved the entire female population from potentially embarrassing run-ins with yet another socially-challenged man.
of course, when you have a soft-porn picture as your avatar, you have to kind of expect that kind of behavior from guys. Kinda paints a target on ya. Know what I mean, Vern?
2006-10-04 23:33:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the pass. if it is just a simple statement, then i just let him know that i am not interested. however, if it is a foul gesture or a rude remark, or even an unnecessary touch, then he will get rudely put in his place
2006-10-04 23:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by goldie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel much better if you just say that you're "not interested" or "no." If you drag it out and make excuses, it makes me feel like I'm being belittled and it makes me slightly irritated.
2006-10-04 23:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by Richard H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
firmly but nicely tell him no.
2006-10-04 23:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him point blank you're not interested!!!
2006-10-04 23:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by Maryanne 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just stop him and tell him that I'm not interested
2006-10-04 23:36:59 · answer #8 · answered by ArmyGirlfriend 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are a lesbian.
2006-10-04 23:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by Valac Gypsy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way.
2006-10-04 23:32:58 · answer #10 · answered by prince47 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋