Ok well i cheated on my gf of 8 months. I first cheated on her in our second month together and after hard work she took me back and I worked for her trust and I stayed faithful from then up till now and she says she cant take it anymore. I dont blame her in fact I understand her and I wish her the better cuz she truly deserves better. But I still love her what should I do?
2006-10-04 16:23:38 · 20 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love her then let her go because you are too immature and don't deserve her. learn from the experience and be a grown up next time. don't get involved with someone if you want to play around.
2006-10-04 16:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not portray to be faithful or willing to settle down because you aren't, damn dude just be honest from now on. Respect is hard to come by... how can you earn respect if you can't be trusted? It sucks though huh, with someone there is five that are right there and want everything to do with you. When you are single and alone, you are really alone. Noone wants you, you feel like you are damaged goods. I admire you for your maturity in analyzing your own situation as you have, most of all admitting you were wrong.
2006-10-04 23:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by llltazslleyeslloflltrullblulll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well leave her alone and let her find a man who will treat her the way she deserves to be treated. Don't call her all the time and try to see her all the time. If you do she wan't fully be able to get over you and move on and SHE DESERVES to move on. You on the other hand should work on identifying what is causing you to sabatoge your relationship with someone you say you truly care about. Work on your issues for your future relationships.
2006-10-04 23:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn from this and don't make the same mistake when love comes your way again.
As for this girl, don't pressure her or make her feel bad for not staying with you. Don't play the victim, either. She's the victim, and you would only confuse her feelings, which is unfair. Give her time and space to move on from this relationship - that's the best thing you can do for her.
2006-10-04 23:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by fruitnroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really love her? i am not questioning your knowledge of your feelings, but if you loved her, why did you cheat? was it because you thought you could get away with it. and if you felt so bad the first time why do it again. you saw how much it hurt her. why put her and you through that. give her some space and grow up some. after awile she may forgive you....but maybe you need to think about her happiness.
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2006-10-04 23:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out what's going on with you that you will cheat on a girl you love. I doubt she will take you back now, so it would be best if you do some soul-searching and move on.
2006-10-04 23:28:00 · answer #6 · answered by Victoria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah.. no offense dude, but guys of your kind give women a nasty impression over guys. She's leaving you coz she wants you to GROW and be more matured. the way i see it, she's a woman who has a good head over her shoulder, let her go and just hope to see her happy with someone who will be faithful to her. As for you, you might change yourself as well, so the next time you fall, u know better what to do.
2006-10-04 23:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by joan mae l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let her go... she DOES deserve someone better. Take some time to yourself and figure out why you cheated on her. You did it twice, she probably thinks you will do it again and again.
2006-10-04 23:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay clear from her, you obviously can't stay faithful for long, go get some help, or train yourself to resist the urge to cheat then you can start dating again, but unfortunately ur girl would have moved on by then so you'll have to get u another girl, sorry.
2006-10-04 23:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by gal-next-dr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop cheating on her duh. And figures that you are cheater cuz your name is slaphappy. Why do you cheat? If you are gonna cheat, don't even bother getting a girlfriend, there are plenty of promiscuous women out there just for you. If you love her and know you can't stay faithful then let her go.
2006-10-04 23:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋