I met this girl that i really like, she doesn't know i like her though
but she lives in the city now
do u think if I tell her that i like her a lot and that i'm going to be around one of those days, you know, visiting the ciy. do you think I have a chance if i ask her to meet me in like a museum of sthg to walk , or whatever, to know if she likes me or not????
or what should i do???
2006-10-04 16:20:26 · 11 answers · asked by javn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good for you. Your going after what you want. You haven't said if you talk often . but I would suggest try talking to her for a bit maybe through email or messaging or phone, let her get to know you a bit better. ( easier that way as you said she doesn't know you like her yet) and by you coming to her city and saying wanna go to a meusuem she may hesitate as she knows nothing about you.
So start off with a warm up first. let her get to know you either by on the phone or chatting on computer. Then you could drop the idea hey i'm going to be in your area maybe when I'm there we can do something together.
I think you'll have better luck of her saying yes if she comes to know you a bit better first.
good luck
2006-10-04 16:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well personally I would have a third party ask if they like me. Unless you are confident enough to ask yourself. But don't say you will be in the city. In case she doesn't like you and is repulsed by you, that would not be good. Find out what her feelings of you are and then possibly take it further by asking her to meet you somewhere.
2006-10-04 16:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her, go for it while you are there, its the perfect chance because if she rejects you, you'll be leaving soon anyways so you wont be around her for long =) Good luck!
2006-10-04 16:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the girl out. Have confidence. Believe in yourself. Be positive & picture your date with her. You'll be fine!
2006-10-04 16:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a good plan. All you need to do is ask her and see. there is nothing wrong with asking I think it sounds great.
2006-10-04 16:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i think its a grat idea. And I think, if you tell her directly and it really meant from the heart,.. she might like you too,.. you never know if you don't try
2006-10-04 16:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by ozma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh??? you can't just come to people's lives and suddenly tell that that you like them... it doesnt work like that... girls like when guys keep them wondering if you like them or not... just try to win her heart without telling her you love her at first... but if you and her live so far away then yeah you should tell her...
2006-10-04 16:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her know you like her, ask her out, buy her flowers, see her response, then u know how to take things from there, good luck
2006-10-04 16:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by gal-next-dr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to find out is if you ask her.
2006-10-04 16:22:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her and she will probably say yes
2006-10-04 16:22:55 · answer #10 · answered by manofmusic9111 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋