This guy smiled a couple of times. I smiled back, then after that everytime practically we happen to meet eyes he just gives me this really serious look. This has happened like 6 times. One time he was with another guy and as they walked away he must of said something to the friend because he looked back at me and had a smile on his face. I've been trying to really avoid this guy. When I see him coming I don't look up or in his direction. I also found out today he's married. But today I was walking through my area and from a distance I saw him he had his head turned in my direction and just stared at me again. No smile just a stare. What's this guy doing? I mean especially if he's married. But I feel he wants me to see him looking because sometimes when he's gone by he's hasn't looked. Does he think I'm easy because a couple of times I had a semi low cut shirt on? Everyone I know says I don't look that way at all!!!
2006-10-04 16:00:02 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The thing to is he only looks to be 23 or 24 and I'm 35 years old. Some people think I look my age and some think I'm in my late 20's. So why would he even acknowledge me?
2006-10-04 16:01:36 · update #1
He's attracted to you (or he thinks youre attracted to him) and he's sending you a message that he would like to have an affair with you or it could be that he likes to "play" with womens emotions. He's married, so just ignore him and dont let him "use" you for sex or let him manipulate your emotions for his ego boost. I'm not saying you will, but please dont get involved with a married man because you will most likely regret it.
2006-10-04 16:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by bobbie jo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh MY GOSH! This is the same thing I've been going through with a co-worker. He is married, yet flirts constantly, he stares, smiles a lot, talks about me to others, calls me sexy, beautiful, held my hand when I thought he wasn't married, etc. It's absolutely absurd and I can't stand men like this, they play with our hearts and it isn't right! He is just a player, like the guy I know, and just wants some action most likely.
2006-10-04 23:17:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iam sorry but from the information you have given here doent appear he wants anything from you ,so what he looked a couple times men all do this .maybe he is wandering why you are looking at him.because to know he is looking you have to be looking .he is married and dont sound like he has done nothing wrong ,you may be reading into it wrong ,you say he does not always smile .I think he is just friendly .and given you know he is married I would not try anything crazy .
2006-10-04 23:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either:
1) you have the scenario all wrong and you only think he has some interest in you when really he doesn't.
2) He thinks you're hot, there's nothing wrong with looking at hot people even if you are in a relationship as long as you don't try to pursue them.
3) evil plans he has in store for you.
2006-10-04 23:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just a simple case of him finding you attractive. I think you are reading too much into his "stares". Guys like looking at attractive women no matter what age. If you are attractive or hot then it's only normal for guys to l\*look*. Take it as a compliment. Or be flattered... but don't encourage him
2006-10-04 23:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by Wibble 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing he is attracted to you. Married men do not stop looking. Could just be harmless flirting.
Always a chance it's more than harmless flirting. In that case, avoid eye contract and he should eventually get the hint.
2006-10-04 23:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by shakopcool 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you went through all of this trouble to write in indicates that there is much more you are concerned about besides you thinking that he percieves you as easy. bottom line-who CARES what he thinks or feels? he is MARRIED-and inviting anything else into this equation is a formula for disaster. look the other way and don't give this a second thought.
2006-10-04 23:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by evonne i 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is he doing to you? Looking at you? I didn't know that married people were not allowed to look at others. We're married, not dead. Maybe he thinks you are attractive or maybe the first time he saw you, you had something between your teeth or toilet paper stuck to your shoe. Stop obsessing about a guy who's married but looks at you when you see him in public. If it truly bothers you, then ask him about it and tell him to stop.
2006-10-04 23:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by tollerx2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
looking easy or not should not get that kind of response.....i say say clear of him sounds like he's on the hunt for a mistress....and he's hunting you... best bet is to ignore him and do your own thing .....if it gets out of hand I'd approach him, with another male friend in tow and ask ....Do I remind you of someone because you keep staring at me.. Why??" and see were that goes... or he thinks your just beautiful....either way too weird say clear..
2006-10-04 23:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by Andi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he is given youa hint or he is a complete lunatic. Just the fact that he is married is a red light. You should ask him what is the problem and if he acts like a da mn fool, stay away from him.
2006-10-04 23:05:12 · answer #10 · answered by ShellyBelly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋