so I'm decent looking, guys always hit on me tell me I'm beautiful etc. but I don't think I'm a very good dancer. ESPECIALLY if I'm feeling nervous or self-conscious.
so a question for the guys... if a girls physically attractive but not good at dancing is that a major turn-off?
what about if she just act's silly when she dances and doesn't dance sexily? is that a huge turn off?
would you still approach her anyways?
2006-10-04 15:56:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea, I'm not really nervous about dancing, I do go to clubs and just have fun, adn I get approached there but that could just be because the guys are desperate. lol.
i was just curious and thinking about bringing a guy I like clubbing and was wondering if that would be a good idea.
2006-10-04 16:05:58 · update #1
I can't say I ever actually looked out on the dance floor to decide which girl I was going to talk to and which I wasn't. Not that big of deal! Matter of fact, that you have a sense of humor is better any day!
2006-10-04 16:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by sixfoot8bkr 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nah, I would still go up to you. Who cares if you are not a good dancer or if you don't dance sexually. You can act silly all you want and dance how ever the **** you feel like it. I have to admit I'm not a good dancer myself, but **** I try because I know that I'm at least learning every time I dance. Guys who do love to dance may find it as a major turn off, but screw them. You do whatever you feel is cool for you. Plus it maters who you are in the inside. So yeah I would approach you because then I could offer to help teach you to dance and then I would get quality time to get to know you better. So if a guy finds this as a major turn off then there gay and they don't know $hit about what they are missing out on. Anyways you do what you like to do and don't worry about what people think about your dancing. You dance like you never danced before. Peace out and stay fly!
2006-10-04 16:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by what_it_do? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They could believe you honestly dance badly regardless of you pondering you dance good. I'm no longer seeking to insult you. I'm simply seeking to deliver you an extra standpoint. If you will have ever obvious Hitch, that is a well illustration.
2016-08-29 07:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy hell... if your that nervous about dancing... dont go to a club to meet a guy. Even if you are good at dancing and just dont know it.. you will screw yourself up with a negative attitude.
You dont have to show it off to flaunt it to guys. If youre sexy .. you dont have to 'drop it like its like its hot' to get attention. Chances are, youve alrready got it. So, go with that.
Hey, if you really wanna start a convo... during a non-specific dance type of song... go up to a guy.. you want to dance with.. and just follow his lead. If you get a good song.. it should be pretty easy to just bop along. Once youre out there with him.. .youve got this attention... so just let your body go with the tunes.
2006-10-04 16:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by Blondie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that is your style.. go for it. But sometimes the best ways to learn how to dance is just to sway back in fourth and bend your knees. Just move your hips. Also, maybe a friend can help.
2006-10-04 15:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by unknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people can not dance, There's a lot more to life than dancing !
2006-10-04 16:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by g_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't like to dance. The only reason they dance is because you like to dance.
If you don't like it, then they won't ask you to and you'll both be happy.
And if you do want to dance, even though your bad, no straight guy will notice.
2006-10-04 15:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No guy would ever hold that against you .
In fact he might appreciate the fact you cant dance as it saves us guys from embarresment
2006-10-04 16:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well than maybe you should try and teach her and if she cant dance then just dont go dancing!!!
2006-10-04 16:00:47 · answer #9 · answered by preciousprincess8701 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't give a rat's butt if a girl could dance or not. If I'm not any good at basketball...is that a turnoff?
2006-10-04 15:59:17 · answer #10 · answered by stlouisrams1974 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋