they are all good and decent men, have been very attentive and kind. i have been honest from the start that i am seeing all three but between my career, dating and life i just don' t have enough time or energy to devote to three boyfriends at the same time. help me decide...
the tall, dark and handsome Marine
the tall, blonde and handsome computer nerd
the well dressed, medium height and handsome v.p.
2006-10-04 15:55:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TOLLERX - reread i did talk about their character..guess you missed that on purpose...
2006-10-04 16:00:47 · update #1
LEGANDIVO - or whatever, again read the question and remarks, i am always honest, i never claimed to love any of them and they know that. you don't know anything about me or what i do for others so but one thing for sure you need to learn not to judge others without facts..judge yourself and reel in the petty, nasty, jealousy...
2006-10-04 16:05:20 · update #2
i am not planning on marrying any of them...i am only dating them not sleeping with or anything else...some of you really need to get a life and quit judging by what you'd do
2006-10-04 16:15:28 · update #3
none of them are the 'one' i'm not looking for that and they aren't looking for marriage...
2006-10-04 16:41:02 · update #4
Do you care enough to marry one of them? And are they interested in marrying you? Which one wants marriage and children. Do you want marrigae and children? Mabie this will help you. Sincerely Rocky
2006-10-04 16:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by Rock man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The marine may get some type of PTSD
And the V.P. may be a greedy money monger.
The computer nerd may be the right guy. I have dated "nerds" and I have good memories of them; they're stereotypically nice people.
2006-10-04 22:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by Donovan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are impressed with the fact that three men dersire you. YOu do not love even oine of them. YOu are a usser and abuser of people, no matter what you or anyone else says.
It is clear that they have been at best, friends, and some people to help boost your self image.
If you want to love someone, it is YOU who has to do the giving, the contributing to others.
If you marry any one, you will be bored rather quiakcly, and overwhelemed with the fact that doubts will enter your mind about the two you turned down.
If I were you, I'd; join the Peace Corps and start really seeing how much there is to contribute to others, and start to do it. .
2006-10-04 23:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say go with the computer nerd.
Too much war... Marine may vanish. And with the V.P.... well, there's the whole Enron & Martha Stewart scandals. LOL. Computer nerd will get you the million dollar house in the hills! And if you've actually found a CUTE computer nerd... keep him! :-)
2006-10-04 23:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by Shay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's what you need to ask: Do you see a future with any of these men? If you could see yourself spending 3, 5, 100 years with any one of them, then you may want to break it off with the other 2 (nicely) and focus on that one relationship.
However, it sounds from what you're saying that you may just need time to focus on your career and non-dating life, and to decide what it is that you want romantically or family-wise in the future.
(My humble opinion, if you're intent on deciding, is the computer nerd. :-))
2006-10-04 23:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you only mention their looks and their jobs, I think you should let them all go so that they can find someone less shallow that does not care so much what they look like or how much money they make. You should focus on how they make you feel, what your heart tells you; these other things won't make you happy forever.
2006-10-04 22:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by tollerx2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well gal u have gotta decide on ur own well u just have to ask urself a few quest
1.) wif whom do u feel more comfotable with (i mean u can relax knowing tat he ll take care of u)
2.) wif whom do spend the most time with ( and vice cersa)
3.) wif whom u think u can spend ur life with (if u r thinking bout marriage)
good luck gal!!! ;)
2006-10-04 23:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by SexyPrincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares about height or looks. It's all about who do you think will take care of you best and makes you happy. who will be a good dad, provider, soul mate.
2006-10-04 22:58:52 · answer #8 · answered by Wibble 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What does your heart say? I would say the Marine.
2006-10-04 22:57:58 · answer #9 · answered by country girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go with whomever makes your heart sing the most and your panties the wettest!
2006-10-04 22:58:30 · answer #10 · answered by evonne i 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋