My girlfriend of about 7 months wants me to have sex with her. However, I believe in keeping her clothes on unless she was my wife ofcourse. This has been brought up several times now and it really is started to irritate me. She also has wanted me to touch her secrets as well. I feel this is inappropriate. How can I get her to drop this topic?
2006-10-04 15:47:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand your frustration and I would be extremely irritated if this happened to me as well but I do want to point out to you that it is still possible to have sex with your girlfriend without taking off your clothes, although it is a lot different since you will still have your clothes on. However, if your girlfriend is still bugging you to still have sex with her after you have told her several times you do not want to and she still does it, this is called sexual harassment and in a case like this your girlfriend could easily go to jail. You need to let her know that she cannot go on treating you lie this and if she continues to do so then you will see to it that she gets the punishment she deserves.
2006-10-04 16:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by leged56 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love her enough to wait until the right time, which is marriage. If she can't accept the fact that you have respect for her and her body, then she wasn't in the relationship for you. Hopefully she can realize that she has a diamond out a bag of glass. It's hard to find guys like you. If she breaks up with you, because you refuse, don't worry you'll find someone else quick.Just show her that she doesn't have to give you physical pleasure to keep you around and that her company is just enough.
2006-10-04 22:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you believe and ask her that you want to be with her for blah blah blah reasons and not because of sex/whatever. If she dumps you, well you will know what kind of person she is. But if she accepts it, then you will have a partner that you can enjoy part of your life if not the rest of it with.
2006-10-04 22:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by rararaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. If she doesn't respect your wishes then you need to dump her. Tell her you are waiting for marriage for intercourse or any sexual contact if she can't except that then you need to see other people. but be prepared for the consequences. If you don't want to lose her then you will have to change your morals and if you do that that would be wrong.
2006-10-04 22:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha you got you a freak lol naw just playing just be honest tell her you want to wait to marriage break up with her and find a virgin unless she wants to wait till marriage or u change ur mind and show her ur nakedness
2006-10-04 22:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother having sex if you're not going to be comfortable seeing the body of the woman you love. Part of making love is seeing the body of your partner naked.
2006-10-04 22:51:53 · answer #6 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No No No....you have to tell your girlfriend that its a sin to have sex before marriage. Tell her that you find her attitude demeaning and you'll never have someone like her as your wife. Tell her only sluts have sex before marriage. Tell her to be patient and pray to see her wrongness.
2006-10-04 22:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try telling her to just wait for a year or 2 until you make yourself comfortable & if it doesn't work try giving her the feeling or telling her that she has to wait before you plan to be officially "straight" with each other
2006-10-04 22:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by rhyner021 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would be so much easier to answer if you hadn't already posted so many questions that are so incredibly demeaning to women.
People - please check out the other things he has posted! He's pulling your leg here.
2006-10-06 01:00:09 · answer #9 · answered by BasketChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude! Your awesome. Don't give in. That special girl you meet eventually will appreciate it and if she don't she's not that spacial girl!
2006-10-04 22:52:21 · answer #10 · answered by TNT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋