I've been seeing this girl for almost 2 weeks, & I really like her, so now I don't know when to tell her about my wife & newborn, or should I wait a while or risk scaring her off?
2006-10-04 15:41:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-04 15:46:25 · update #1
NEVER it always comes back and bites you in the ****.
2006-10-04 15:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by Delete System32 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you have a wife and a newborn, you shouldn't be seeing this girl at all. Why would you want to break her heart, youre never going to leave your wife so why toy around in a relationship that can only lead too problems for the both of you. Tell her the truth and allow her too choose if she wants to stay in a no win situation.
2006-10-04 15:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by Antbanks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ever , no never. Really- forget the lover and return to what you have-your wife & "Baby". Do you want some other man raising & influencing your child, taking them to the toy store, or to their 1st day of school? Be known as Great dad-not one that walked off with a girlfriend while the little tike was getting his eyes open. It takes a special unique man to raise a child, keep the lights on & be known as a family man-which by the way, you are just that...go back & take care of your duties.
Good Luck in the Family matter
2006-10-04 15:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rather than agonizing over the timing of your already overdue confession, why not just go back to your wife and newborn and let the other girl get on with her life? Then you can start agonizing more productively over when you should tell your wife.
I feel uncomfortable in butting into what is clearly none of my business, but you did ask, and under the circumstances I think the right thing to do is give it to you with the bark on.
2006-10-04 15:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give it a couple more weeks. That should help in a couple of ways. First, you will learn if it's just mindless lust (not that there is anything wrong with that) that you harbor for the new girl or something a little longer term. Second, you will learn if she likes babies. Perfect built-in baby sitter if she does. After a couple of weeks more, you can either tell her, or just keep plugging her. Win, win for you. .
2006-10-05 00:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go easy on the wife and newborn revelations. This chick may decide to bobbit you. Not that you don't deserve it, but why should she ruin her life?
Never tell anyone anything more than they need to know.
2006-10-04 15:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by Dane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The later you tell her, the more the damage. But at the same time, you have to decide yourself what the resolution would be to the situation, and not tell her and don't know what the answer would be in choosing who you going to be with.
2006-10-04 15:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by islander 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off with one of them bud. You cant ride two horses with one ***. I would reccomend coming clean, and then staying faithful to your wife if you ever want to see your beautiful newborn grow up.
2006-10-04 15:43:17 · answer #8 · answered by Courtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can tell total strangers your most intimate secrets. Than I don't think you'll mind a stranger telling your wife yours. Whats her email?
2006-10-04 15:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by Delores B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a moron. At which point in your relationship did you stop telling your wife your intimate secrets?
2006-10-04 15:42:56 · answer #10 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
After the birth of your fourth child. Before then, don't tell her anything she doesn't need to know.
2006-10-04 15:43:42 · answer #11 · answered by David S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋