Why is it that uneducated men with no college and a mundane physical labor job always need to know where a woman works? Especially on the first date? Is it any of their business? Why are men so darn nosy and busy bodies like fags? Why do a man always want a woman with something when he has nothing? Does he think no one will notice or question him? Why don't guys know it's the man's job to work, not the woman's? Does Kevin Federline have his own cult?
2006-10-04 15:32:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wrong! You don't have to be in the NBA to take care of a girl. Plenty of men provide for their wives and they don't have to work. Hint hint, suburbs. A job does NOT determine what your life is like, it determines what your COMPANY is like, your work is not YOU. A job is not what you are, it's what you do. Why are men so duped by societies myths?????? You need to read the book "Lies Your Teacher Told You."
2006-10-04 15:56:44 · update #1
Wow... it's not 'the man's job to work', while the woman stays at home in this day and age... today we all work to provide a better life for our children. However, I do feel it's offensive to ask, (whether it's a male or female), what a person does for a living. The bigger question is why does it matter what we do to earn an honest living?
2006-10-04 15:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by deangelis88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you are working on several issues aren't you? What happened? Did your best friend steal your man? The answers to your questions are painfully obvious. First of all, jobs are often safe fodder for first dates, usually everyone has one and they tell people a lot about you just be understanding how you spend 40+ hours a week. Don't most people go looking for someone great, especially when they have nothing? That is kind of how it works. Now if you are getting hit on by a lot of men with no job and few prospects I would suggest that you try hanging out in some better locations. Here is another news flash for you. It is 2006, unless you are married to Bill Gates or Shaquille O'Neal most every couple is dependent on each others income. In most circles men still earn more but not all the time. If my wife was laid off we would be in trouble, we would be in the same trouble if I was laid off. It takes two to make it these days. I think you are pretty rude, I mean if a man tries to date a woman who has her stuff together, he is a loser... if he looks for a woman with little on the ball and low self-esteem, then he is using her... and I really don't understand why in your question you feel the need put down or ridicule gay men... I am guessing that you are either too young to be posting here, or you are some father's princess and maybe out of school a year or two? I would think that if a great guy approached you that you would scare him of in about two minutes?
.... I live in the suburbs :) Still does not explain your gay bashing?
2006-10-04 15:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that this crosses a mans options b/c he needs to work out how intense on the nutrition chain she falls. a familiar male received't (i'm no longer saying all) approve of a lady with a position/status more suitable than himself. If she holds a position with fairly some skill he might want to get intimidated and not in any respect favor to work out her again. He might want to imagine that heavily isn't properly matched b/c she holds a company job and he works for a well-known laborous job. He might want to imagine "properly in public what's going to human beings imagine? My different 1/2 wears a accessible healthful and that i positioned on a device belt to paintings. Hmm this does no longer look suitable." Like I suggested no longer all adult males imagine this kind yet a majority do.
2016-12-04 07:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by gravitt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually its Both the man and the womans job to work! Come on we faught for equal rights after all. Besides its just a question a way of making conversation.
2006-10-04 15:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...I think it's just part of making conversation...especially on a first date.
2006-10-04 15:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie Mae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 small talk you should try it . Its fun realy
2 he wants to know if your going to suck his money down faster than a p@rno actress swallowing semen
2006-10-04 15:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want to be a "kept man" and want to make sure you can "afford the lifestyle they want to come accustomed to". ;-)
Much like Federline.
2006-10-04 15:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by captn_carrot 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the guys concerned about whether or not the chick can support herself if she leaves him. If she can, he'll go for an easier target
2006-10-04 15:36:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
uhh maybe hes just trying to make conversation? lol if he ask you hows your family, do you think he wants to marry you and become part of your family.
2006-10-04 15:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by maxtrolle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They want to know if you will be able to support them financially...see? Those spongers!
2006-10-04 15:34:33 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋