You might need to read my last question in order to understand this question. heres a link......
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtCKqorsj3G91BQ6FUCHDnrsy6IX?qid=20061002210015AATAMwC
Anyways I found all answers very good, so I took everyones advice and I did what most of you told me to do. I bought Rachel food and a soda. I also ditched my friends to kick it with her and her group. I walked her to all her classes including the ones we don't have with each other. In my last period class I asked her if she wanted to hook up and she said that she would love too only that she does not want to bring problems to me and her. She also said that she was scared of getting hurt. Now I'm left thinking what went wrong and what the **** does she mean about problems if nothing will happen to her if I'm around? I already lost one of my friends for defending her and her stupid friend who hates on me. What does Rachel mean about problems and should I keep trying to hook up with her?
2006-10-04 15:24:40 · 7 answers · asked by what_it_do? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont push her, shes one of those girls who gets her heart broken by some jerk and then she promises herself she will never get hurt again, so she doesnt want to let herself get close to anyone. i once knew a girl like this, so my advice is take it slow, and just be her friend, if it works out, awsome, if you dont get a girlfriend, at least you get a friend
2006-10-04 15:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by maxtrolle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may be feeling a lot of pressure since you ditched your friends and she may think this means she is obligated in some way. Also, you want her to trust you but trust is earned and it builds over time. Right now I would try to spend time with her and my friends and not make her feel pressured or like she has caused you to do all this because of the way you feel about her. Plus you don't know what other people are telling her. It seems like she's in a position where she is going to be judged or dumped or treated badly by someone no matter what she does and she may not feel like being forced into that position. You may need to back off just a little and let her make a move or let her breathe for a little while. If it's meant to be it will. Just stand up for her when and if everyone starts telling her a bunch of stuff about what's happened. you are the one that pursued her....don't blame her if it isn't exactly like you expected. Give her space and room to think and feel but be thare if she needs you. I know it's complicated, young love always iss.
2006-10-04 22:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. Well I salute you for sticking to what you want...no matter what any one says. I think by her statement means...thats she likes you and likes being friends with you and might be afraid that if it doesn't work out with you two that she will loose that.
The bad thing is...is that you did all this to be with her and I don't think she relizes what a nice person you really are and what you gave up by giving your friends up. Maybe ask her if she is sure she wouldn't want to give you a chance...then move on if she still says no.
good luck..and again..good for you for stickin to what you want. :)
2006-10-04 22:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that means she likes the friendship between u to and doesnt want u or her to hate eachother just keep trying
2006-10-04 22:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, she doesn't want to date you that is all it means she is just trying to be nice. she likes your friendship and that's it. if you two were to date and not mesh then it would be awkward and she doesn't want to loose your friendship. stop trying to hook up with her it's not happening.
2006-10-04 22:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she has gotten hurt, sounds like tremendously...if u care it will be worth it, and if your friends cant understand that u care for her, maybe they aren't real friends....
2006-10-04 22:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um..uh...um...
2006-10-06 08:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋