cause we dont know anything about the person
we jus see them... we know they look good....
can we see their personalites through their eyes or something ?
or is it jus shallow or watt ?
2006-10-04 15:21:54 · 13 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Very real.
June the 10th 1990 at the Rennissance Festival just outside Murfreesboro TN in a grove where the games were setup i saw "M". She was wearing a white peasant blouse with black vest and a camel colored skirt. She saw me at the mud pit with a friend of mine and said the world stopped i hadn't seen her yet.
She called me over to her stand and as i turned around i saw an image that would make Aphrodite just crap with jealousy. She had long wavy strawberry blonde hair a few freckles and bluish/grey eyes. Her skin was fair and her lips like pink rose petals. She was quite thin and willowy.
I struck up a conversation and must have babbled about like a drunken monkey for she was the most elegant thing that could ever be concieved of. Like a voice from the past calling me home.
We found ourselves under the shade of Castle Gwynn (a castle built by a photographer on the property) and kissed nonstop for 20 minutes and i truly understood at that moment just how badly someone could need something.
We were together for 2 1/2 years until her passion turned to jealousy then suspiscion then misery. Picking fights with any girl who looked at me. To this day i am so grateful i met her for the memories of that day and all the times thereafter of her laughter, going to her graduation, her prom, the look in her eyes when i looked at her, the slenderness of her nude form, the way we couldn't keep our hands off each other, the hours of just talking, the poems and letters and books we shared, the way we could just look at each other and know what the other was feeling, the little things i never took for granted because with her every second meant so much.
All from one look.
Call it a psychic bond, reincarnated lovers, soulmates whatever.
It happened and 16 years after that day i still think of her despite the many romances since then.
2006-10-06 04:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by sprydle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes actions speak louder than words....you might see a guy sitting there reading his sister a book, while he might be cute, he's doing something sweet....that might be an attractive trait for you. If you see a guy who is drop dead gorgeous, but then he starts laughing at a fat chick, then you might find yourself calling him an *ss. These traits are not shallow, the way people carry themselves says a lot about them!
2006-10-04 22:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by josiedickelman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i really don't believe in love at first sight. you see, how can say that you truly love someone when you don't even really know her. What if she has that qualities that you don't like, or you're just too different people. So i think love at first sight is completely shallow. But if you're really interested in her, then I suggest you get to know her first. :)
2006-10-04 22:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by chix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not necessarily to looks that cause love at first sight..the way they carry themselves or talk. I fell in love with my ex husband...love at first sight. (which also shows it always doesn't work out) I still love him very much, he was my husband for 6yrs and the father of my children. I don't go all for looks, so I don't think its just looks.
2006-10-04 22:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No never, its strong attraction and that is the start of every single relationship. Dating is all about getting to know each other, so enjoy yourself, but, keep your feet on the ground.
2006-10-04 22:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, love is different for everyone. for my mother and father it was love at first sight. its not shallow, its just this kind of intuition that that person is the person you wish to be with. dont be such a cynic.
silke
2006-10-04 22:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut feeling. Love at first sight is just a figure of speech.
2006-10-04 22:25:23 · answer #7 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just a phrase..
most ppl use it to explain the first time they actually meet someone and talk to them..
not just see them.. however i fell for my fiance the first time i ever saw him... after talking to him the first few times i wasn't sure... he wasn't a good communicater, but our first date was amazing and it has been since then
2006-10-04 22:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by gardener24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe it, but my husband does. He said that after our first date he knew that he would marry me. He's more romantic then I am.
2006-10-04 22:25:41 · answer #9 · answered by BuffyFromGP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not shallow at all!!! sometimes somebody is just so attractive to you that you just fall!!!
2006-10-04 22:26:32 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋