I went to a party with a guy and we sarted dancing, then we went to sit down but we sat at diferente tables because the party was crowded. In my table I started talking to my uncle and the guy I was with got jealuous (he didn´t know he was my uncle) and went dancing with another girl. Afterwards he told me he had gone dancing with another girl because I had been talking with another guy, my unlce, and when I told him he was my uncle he laughed like he knew he had made a mistake. After the party we sat down to talk and we kissed, but know my friends are telling me he is a player because he took the other girl dancing and I don´t know what to think anymore! What's your advice?
2006-10-04 15:18:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow...I wouldn't be as worried about him dancing with another girl as I would be about him getting jealous and "getting even" with you for talking to another guy (your uncle). I mean, what do future things you innocently do that he takes the wrong way have in store for you? He seems to me like he has the "I'll get her back" attitude and that is not good in my book.
2006-10-04 15:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are just in the beginning of dating this guy, you should sweetly let him glide off into the sunset. He is a game player, because he made a snap decision (which means he wasn't giving you a whole lot of credit for making the right decision) and took it upon himself to "pay you back" by dancing with someone else; kind of immature to say the least. Spending a lifetime with someone like this would be a sentence, find someone who brings positiveness to you and doesn't require so much upkeep. You should have been able to just be without question, it was just a date for goodness sake!
Good luck and follow what your belly button tells you (you know, that initial feeling you get when you know something is or isn't right)
2006-10-04 22:25:23 · answer #2 · answered by OPTIMIST 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is someone that you are just getting to know... and he over reacts like that i say let him go... first off that is a bad sign. So what if you are sitting at a table speaking to another male... and if he wasn't your uncle would the guy had left you at the party and went home with the other girl? You don't need that drama in your life, that sounds like he's possessive... forget being a player...
2006-10-04 22:22:26 · answer #3 · answered by smiley_140 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should follow your own instincts on what you think about the guy. Just dancing with another girl at a party doesn't make one a player and he even admitted he did it and why. And i wouldn't think a player would get jealous anyway they are too busy playing the field to have feelings of jealousy. However the guy does seem to be the jealous type so you need to be careful in that respect. My fiance said Also be sure of your feelings for him cause if he thinks you are playing him he won't hesitate to find someone else.
2006-10-04 22:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by snail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably took the other girl coz you were talking wit your uncle. Its all a bit of a misunderstanding, i mean i wouldve done the same thing out of jealousy.
2006-10-04 22:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably did take the other girl dancing because he thought you blew him off... dancing with another girl doesn't make him a player. you'll have to get to know him better and observe his reputation to figure that out. good luck :)
2006-10-04 22:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does sound like a player....why would he take another girl dancing if he liked you?
2006-10-04 22:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he was just jealous. he was just trying to make you jealous that`s why he danced with the other girl. and he even told you about it. or if you really want to know. ask him. good luck ! =]
2006-10-04 22:21:49 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the other girl was his aunt, sister, cousin, etc.. Theres a thousand different scenerios here..
2006-10-04 22:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first off do you want a man who you do not even know yet to have distrust issues already???I mean dam he has no right to act like that he not even your man...and Another thing you do not need to explain yourself to anybody... especialy a man you barely just met.
2006-10-04 22:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by Cherry Cherry808 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋