Just curious if guys that cheat usually seek out girls that are just as good looking as what they have or better. And if their not as good looking why would they want someone not as good. If you already have steak everyday why go for hamburger? And take a chance of losing your steak?
2006-10-04 15:14:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean I could see if the girl comes on to them and she's that good. But if they actually are looking.
2006-10-04 15:16:51 · update #1
Think about it this way.
When climbing a hill, one can only go one step at a time. If one stays on the same step. bordom sets in. To avoid bordom, one must take a step. The step can be made in these directions.
1. To step up: better than he has
2. To the side: being as appealing as the one they are with will not mean they have the same amount of or less pleasure.
3. To step down: lower than he has.
Most women can be content at staying on step #2 for life.
Some men can also, but it takes a lot of effort.
To go to step # 1 takes more effort than staying at # 2.
Going to # 3 is easy, but risky.
If the guy is going to cheat, the pleasure is not which step he is taking, it is being able to cheat and get away with it. So the answer to your question is being able to have the stake and hamburger too.
2006-10-04 15:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by ageless 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Less attractive women, in an attempt to level the playing field, are more flirtatious or promisicuous. An attractive woman doesn't feel the need to come on to strange men to feel desired or empowered. Because of this, the less attractive woman often targets an involved guy to feel even better about themselves because now he not only likes her...but chose her at risk of losing the other woman. In other words he chose her OVER the better looking woman. The man allows this to happen because he NEVER see's this as a choice between steak and hamburger...he see's this as "Hey, I can have steak AND hamburger!" It is this intentional targeting on the woman's end and faulty decision making on the man's end that results in so many men switching from steak to hamburger!
2006-10-05 10:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They usually go lower - you look at some celebrities who have beautiful wives, the girls they sleep with are usually fatter and plainer than their wives.
I guess if you get steak everyday, sometimes you get a craving for some artery-clogging junk food. It's cheap, it's easily available and it's through your system pretty quickly ... lol
Plus, these men are pigs!
2006-10-04 22:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
steak is good but don't cut down hamburger as a meal. what is better looking to who you or in his eyes. many guys date out of pressure form friends and not form there preferences. what is better to you or the guy cheating
2006-10-04 22:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by redtitan2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience it didn't matter how hot they were. If they offered or came on to him, they usually went for it. I seen some of the women my ex was with (while we were together) after we broke up, they were dogs but they gave him what he wanted, whenever he wanted. Most men have a one track mind if they can get away with it then they will do it, even if they can't they still do just because they could do it.
2006-10-04 22:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by tranquility 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno my ex didnt cheat on me but he broke up with me for a girl who is nine years younger and she isnt very social and i know she doesnt look as good as me..so he had a steak and went for a hamburger....its just sex..im older than her trying to work on career and things you want in life hes a year older than me and just isnt ready to grow up and be a man now since hes with someone so much younger he doesnt have to i guess...he just has to deal with her not being able to help him out catch him when he falls those things like i could
2006-10-04 22:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys who cheat do it because they somehow feel a sense of "power" knowing they can ..doesn't matter if the girl is better or worse looking. Cheaters are CRAP! DUMP him .. he will not stop..just gets worse... next thing you get an STD from him!!
2006-10-04 22:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by MeInUSA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys usually find someone lower than the person they were with before.
2006-10-04 22:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by scorpio78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex had filet mignion and went out and got dog food. Its all about free meat for these guys,theyll take what they can get.
2006-10-04 22:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass always seems greener on the other side. People always want something they don't already have
2006-10-04 23:09:51 · answer #10 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋