My bf always piss me of and when I call him he will say I don’t want to talk to u right know I will call y late and he will say bye and hung up on me! and when he call me the next day or after a couple hours, I will forget everything and talk to him like nothing happen, and the fact that I get mad at him he doesn’t really care he just ignore me. And what ever I say most the time seems to be wrong to him. Is he controlling me or what?? I my being stupid?? What should I do I can’t just ignore him what so ever I always answer my phone even he mad me cry?? I my sick?
2006-10-04 15:14:33 · 21 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You must stand for something or you will fall for anything. Do not let him treat you like trash. I know you love him with all your heart but he must respect you. If he will not respect you, you will always feel this way. Please have respect for yourself and make him respect you as well. If he will not respect you then dump him until he does. I hope this helps. My two cents worth
2006-10-04 16:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by Doug favors universal insurance! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey im exactly the same way, when i get mad about something it can be anything i always forget and then the next day i just totally forget what the heck the conversation is even about.It makes me aggravated. Well i think he's just avoiding an arguement and doesn't want to face the situation. Well i dont think i would continue to date him if he's ignoring u and doesn't care when ur mad i would say "look i can find someone out there who does care when theres something wrong and ur not the one" thats all u have to say. Dont stay with some1 who makes u cry cuz it will never work..trust me. its just agony and greif. so tell him to move on out the door and let another 1 in ok. if u ever want to chat my email is crazy_gal_06@verizon.net good luck
2006-10-04 22:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had this same problem not so long ago. u can do 2 things u can stick around and let him do that to u and scream at him, or u can just stop caring about him and let go slowly by doing the same stuff that he does to u. i know it is really hard not to pay attetion to him because ive been though that but if u fell like u want to call him dont, and dont answer all of his calls put ur cellphone on silent or something so u wont have to hear it then call him later on. if he is just making u cry u should just let go.. itz hard but once u dont like him and he still does u can just tell him move on and feel good about your self.
2006-10-04 22:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by Mz. May 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is tolerating your annoying habit of calling him insistently. I may be wrong, but why call him late at night?... Or are you sensitive that he may be tired or busy doing something else?
It sounds like the fact that he resume the "status quo" when you do talk again, tells me that he has set his boundary with you about not wanting to be overwhelmed with contact and is willing and desirable to get together again.
If the frequency is not enough for you, then you need to look for a guy who has more connection needs than this one. See if you can be patient with this one.
On the other hand, if he is only wanting to connect when it is convenient or desirable to him, then he is being selfish.
2006-10-04 22:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by Serendipity 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Youre not sick but confused. It sure sounds to me like he knows how to push your buttons and that is a form of control which is a form of abuse. You need to sit down and talk to him and say "Hey, this is how I am feeling and this is what I am seeing. If things dont change for the better, we will have to go our separate ways." If he says fine, goodbye, then you know you were better off anyways. Yeah, it will hurt for a while but you will get over it and find someone 10x better. Good luck.
2006-10-04 22:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by Lucky Me 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to get rid of him...which you already know or you wouldn't ask a question. He's treating you like crap. You've accepted the way he treats you and he will continue to treat you that way because he can. Before long he will be hitting you if he isn't already. This relationship CANNOT be saved!!! If you decide to stay with him you should do some serious self examination.
2006-10-04 22:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he doesn't really care hun..
you're his fail safe. he knows that you'll always be there no matter what.
so therefor he'll never be alone.
You need to stand up for yourself. Tell him how you feel and when you do i can almost bet you he won't even show concern for your feelings. Get rid of him show him that you won't stand for the way that he treats you . Be your own woman. You can do so much better. trust me. Good luck girl and be strong
2006-10-04 22:19:26 · answer #7 · answered by gardener24 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is trying to his3e something or he has to try to look " big" infrot of everyone and he sees you will deal with it. sit him dowwn and tell him you both need to have a serious tak tell him it is impor5tant to you a nd if he wont talk lose him because if he really wanted to be with you he will want to know how you feel tell him whats on your mind and BOth of you try to find a wat to compimise. that way it shows him you are honest and straight forward and you want to work it out if he dont vare....someone else will good lucjk
2006-10-04 22:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by michele,deanna w 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO, you're not sick, you're bored. Try visiting the library....you won't believe how many smart/cute guys they have there. You are relying on your boyfriend for attention....my advice, look elsewhere!
2006-10-04 22:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by josiedickelman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your bf does not care about you , he treat you like a cat on the street, when he feel like miss you he will call you, when he don want u he will kick you. he dosen love you anymore. pls don lie to yourself anymore. leave him or you will hurt yourself for nothing .
2006-10-04 22:20:38 · answer #10 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋