i told my boyfriend that i was going to do it, and he seems ok with it, i'm just hoping it doesn't backfire on me later if he gets jealous. Also, I will set my x straight when i see him, but he made some sort of sexual inuendo that i'm not quite sure of what he meant. Sometimes I just think i need attention from other males that makes me feel wanted and needed. I dont live with my boyfriend and only get to see him on weekends.
2006-10-04 15:11:21 · 12 answers · asked by andigirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your boyfriend seems ok with it and you are not going to do anything with the ex, I guess it's ok. I would definetly take someone with you so nothing can be said about what went on.
2006-10-04 15:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently, your boyfriend trusts you enough and believes that your relationship is strong enough for you to see an ex-boyfriend. Don't destroy things with him by having a fling with your ex.
Maybe a drink is a bad idea. Meet up for coffee instead, in the middle of the day. Hell, bring a friend along if you think that you'll be too weak to withstand you ex's advances.
2006-10-04 22:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by Kaonashi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you broke up with the ex for a reason. Don't ever back track. You knew your boyfriend situation when you got with him. Don't blame him for wanting to see your ex. If your ex mentioned a sexual thing then you and him are not friends atleast he is not thinking that way. Don't mess up your current relationship for a loser who you ended the relationship with for whatever reason.
2006-10-04 22:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by Tyler&Noah's mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is an old boyfriend for a reason and you say you love your present boyfriend if it was me i wouldn't cause then there will be a lot of lies and confusing coming from it cause your ex got a reason he wants to meet you for a drink ask yourself out of all the time why now don't go cause you may be sorry that you did good luck
2006-10-04 22:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i smell something very wrong here!!!" based on the info. given ....i don't think we have a "match" here at all..i don't know what you expect out of a relationship (short term or long term?)but i think your "x" just wants a "piece" for old time sakes..and as for your current b/f, i think things will only get worse for you two if you need more attention and only get to see him on the weekends..good luck, let me know how things go..
2006-10-04 22:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by michael m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im betting while your boyfriend is ok with it, he's certainly not wild about it. And he'll certainly be thinking about what could possibly happen for the duration of that day. I wouldnt do it
2006-10-04 22:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by morgan b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you go, think, what good will come of it. Do you think it may backfire?
2006-10-04 22:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by Papa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you told him about it,and that's all you do.I do like that fact that your being truthful about the whole thing with him.
2006-10-04 22:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with trying to get a little action on the side. think about it, why be faithful when you could sleep with hundreds of guys? you should only think about you. be selfish, who cares about your boyfriends feelings...unless you love him.
2006-10-04 22:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by maxtrolle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sound like u dono what you need
2006-10-04 22:16:33 · answer #10 · answered by gary a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋