just curious.
2006-10-04 15:03:04 · 23 answers · asked by congoman365 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good sense of humor, respectful, put them 1st, treat them well, fun to be around, can hold a conversation, make them feel all around good. thats basically it
2006-10-04 15:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by Kira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their most attracted to the person that's inside. Yeah girls are a little like guys in a sense they need to be attracted first. But when it really comes down to it, it's the person inside that really counts for everything. The way they treat her respect her. Put her above all others and make her feel special, because to him she's the only one for him!!! That's is what I believe most women find attractive in a guy!!!!
2006-10-04 22:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by Maryanne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, in the physical aspect of this question, healthy and fit is attractive no matter the gender, think about it. Good personal hygeine is fairly important too. Take the time to look the best you can look , without going overboard. Don't wear holey, stained, stretched, outdated clothes. Show that you care about yourself and take some care of yourself.
Secondly, comfortable with who you are within yourself is vital. honesty , trustworthy, not faking who, what or where you are in life.
This doesn't mean telling your whole life story, it means feeling okay about sharing an opinion, and honestly listenig to theirs. If you really love engines, and don't know squat about carpentry, don't fake it. If bowling is totally lame to you then say so.
2006-10-04 22:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by Buttercup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First the looks...
But it will be outranked by his attitude. The very first thing that attracts us of course is the physical appearance of a guy. If a guy is cute or handsome of course we are attracted to him.
But there are guys that although they are good-looking, they do not have the attitudes that we are searching. The kindness, the gentleness, and being good in decision-making. We still prefer the guys character after his looks.
2006-10-04 22:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by bembie719 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy can be fatter and uglier then hell. If he drives up to a night club with a Porch, has it parked by a Valle, then goes inside and starts peeling off the hundreds to by rounds. You know he is going home with a choice looking woman if he wants ..
I would never ever accept a woman who was after my money. but I have seen it time and time again.. So don't give me the **** about sence of humour and looks and body its all about money 90 percent.
2006-10-04 22:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by Shawn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe looks are always the first attraction no matter what anyone says and guys are the same. it all comes down to acknowledgement - we say we want romance, gifts etc but we just want to know you are thinking about us even if its just a phone call in the morning to say i hope you have a great day or before bed. we want to feel wanted it doesn't have to be extreme the smallest things count and do get noticed. also if kids are involved the way you interact with them and acknowledge them
2006-10-04 22:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by allisonwhaites 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me? Well...
1. Humor: My guy MUST have a great sense of humor, or else....
2. Looks: Of course, many women like their men not looking very hideous. If they have ultra cute looks, that will probably catch their attention... and mine! LOL.
3. Personality: I like my guy to have a personality that fits mine and are themselves all the time. It all depends on the personality of both put together...
4. Fashion Statements: A lot of women like men who have a good sense of style and are neat.
5. Comforting: My guy must know how to comfort me when I'm feeling down...
6. I like my guy to know how to keep a conversation going...
7. Women also like their men not to be gay.
That's all I can think of at the moment... OH! ...and they CAN ABSOLUTELY NOT be annoying! :)
2006-10-04 22:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by B K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we r attracted to many things...
for personality traits, i am really attracted to a caring guy who is nice to everyone and just makes me happy to see him. A person who doesnt worry, who is confident, who is willing to do things for me, who tries new things, and who isnt afraid to change and have fun.. i love musically talented people, or just talented in general.. it shows that you can do something
for looks (if this was what u were asking)
I like taller guys (but then im really short) and well i like guys who smile alot and that are goofy (acts goofy and looks goofy).. its cute.. and of course, a good body would b awesome
2006-10-04 22:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what I am attracted to. His personality, he doesn't have to be cute, but he has to have sex appeal. He can be a geek, as long as he is sexy to ME! He has to have a descent job and with a good up bringing and respect for his MOTHER!
2006-10-04 22:15:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like guys who:
*are tall
*can carry a conversation
*is a gentleman
*has goals for his future
*is honest
*good looking
2006-10-04 22:06:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋