today I had an awesome massage by this really hot babe and I told this girl I am seeing... I think she is kind of pissy about it and now is going to get a massage from this so called hunk. says if I can do it then so can she. isn't that immoral for a girl to get a massage from a hunk and don't you think she should only have a massage from a female??
2006-10-04 15:02:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think you have anything to worry about unless you're guilty of something yourself.....it's funny...when women look at a guy they say "OMG, i wonder if he's nice and has money and would be a good husband".....when a guy looks at a girl he wonders what it would be like to f*@k her....
2006-10-04 15:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by andigirl 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, your girlfriend is acting pretty silly. So what if you thought the chick that gave you the massage was a "really hot babe"? You shouldn't get upset that she is about to get this massage from a "so called hunk." Laugh it out. Then turn this around to a steamy session for the two of you. When she gets back from this massage, let her know that it doesn't matter how many hunks out there giving her massages you are the only hunk she'll ever have to worry about. Then give her a massage and make her feel like a hot babe however the two of you get down!
And as far as hot babes are tell her she is the hottest. We women have the tendency to feel kind of less of when our man talks about how hot other women are. Its just a woman thing. Hope this helps!
2006-10-04 22:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by Patty J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And the old double standard rears its ugly head yet again!
It's no more immoral for her to get a massage by a guy, than for you to get one by a "really hot babe". If you really feel this way, then you should likewise feel it's inappropriate for a woman to give you a massage, and you should only get them from men!
2006-10-04 22:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What I think is immoral is the archaic idea men have that they can do something and women can't. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. She should find the best looking man and make you watch him give her a better massage then you ever could.
2006-10-04 22:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by ... 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no it's not wrong for a girl to get a massage from a guy. TRUST... next time get a not so good looking girl for a massage
2006-10-04 22:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by KK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding...right? Should guys only get massages from guys? I think you need to respect her a little more and be the person that makes her a better person. Someone she can trust and be open with.
2006-10-04 22:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by strong and soft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A massage from the opposite sex was good enough for you, it should be good enough for your lady. Morality has nothing to do with it. You sound jealous. Try going with her, learn the procedure and you can massage her in the future.
2006-10-04 22:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by Papa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immoral? Not hardly...it's childish that she's behaving as she is, but as long as it's JUST a massage she gets (and you got) then there's nothing wrong...
If either of you did more than that with someone else, then there's an issue...
2006-10-04 22:05:45 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on intent and I am also assuming that each of you are seeing a licensed masseuse.
My girlfriend and I get his-n-her massages together all the time. She gets rubbed down by her choice of men, my preference is strong-handed women. No worries.
2006-10-04 22:06:38 · answer #9 · answered by TheSlayor 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not. A lot of times, guys are stronger and can give better massages anyway. It feels a lot better when you get one from a male. I think she should be able to.
2006-10-04 22:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can get a message from a :"babe" then she should be allowed to get a message from a "hunk". relationships are supposed to be equal to both the man and the woman.
2006-10-04 22:04:31 · answer #11 · answered by CR2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋