i really like this girl, but she has a bf and they been going out for 3 weeks i really like this girl, she is my friend, but i want to be more than a friend to her.. help!!
2006-10-04 14:54:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The one thing you don't want to do is break the already existing relationship up. That could do one of two things: a. make her less interested in you b. cause you to get used as the rebound guy which I'm pretty sure you don't want to be. 3 weeks is still early in a relationship and they are still finding out things about each other. Just play is cool and hold your horses. She is your friend you say, so as a friend just relax and wait on things to fall in your lap. This guy could be the one for her and if he isn't then trust me, she will find out soon enough. Don't be going aroudn breaking happy homes, because what goes around comes around. You take her from someone, then someone takes her from you. Hope this helps!
2006-10-04 15:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i see were you are coming from. My girlfriend now had a boyfriend and I really like her. I was going to tell her but then I thought if I really care about her I should want her to be happy. I did not tell her when she was with this guy but then when she ended things with him I told her how i felt about her and i told her i thought about telling her when she was dating this guy. She said I am glad you did not do that because girls do not like that even if they feel the same way about you. So don't tell her untill she is single
2006-10-04 16:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by TOM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i`m in the same situation as you are right now. i don`t want to break up anyone cause i know how it feels. so instead i`m just gonna wait for him. but i`m still keeping my opions open. you should too. like someone once said don`t wait for them but don`t forget about them either. just keep you`re eyes open. good luck ! =] you could go check out my questions too. it might give you some ideas. it`s all about the guy i like with a girlfriend.
2006-10-04 15:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to not say anything. I've been the girl in this position before and it will only hurt yours and hers friendship. If you ever want more, you'll just have to wait. If it is meant to be, then you and her will end up together. She just needs to realize it on her own.
2006-10-04 15:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would simply remain her friend, but do not hide anything from her, be honest. Stay calm and let it take its course and you never know,, she might like you more ways then a friends also. Stay cool, if its meant to be it will be. Good Luck!
2006-10-04 14:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't interfere with her relationship with her boyfriend. If you two are meant to be together, it will happen on it's own. Don't risk losing the FRIEND for the romance.
2006-10-04 14:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by ihave5katz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest, dont try and break up there relationship, dont talk to her about her bf. talk to her and make her laugh. if she enjoys being with you, she'll turn to you and leave him. just DONT try and break them up, if you play your cards right and charm her you'll get her to break up with him. =Di got my gf by doing this so good luck =] trust me just talk to her and spend time with her it'll work =D
2006-10-04 14:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by ronaldsmcdonaldc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel, be there for her and wait to see what happens. Meanwhile you are also living your life.
2006-10-04 14:58:29 · answer #8 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what she likes about him, then you try to top it!
2006-10-04 14:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes taken...leave her alone and find someone thats available...u dont have the right to ruin their relationship
2006-10-04 14:56:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋