so i like this guy and ever since this school dance he ignores me. my friends were being obnoxious at the dance and were like .. dance with kira .. and he did but it was soo obvious and i was definitely thinking "u guys are ruining all this".. now he ingnores me kinda in school.. or if i ask something he answers it as quick as possible.. what did i do wrong.. how can i get him to like me??? ... i'm so confused and i dont know what to do but i like this kid..
2006-10-04 14:50:57 · 10 answers · asked by Kira 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the scene that your friends created at the dance is now what he associates with you. let him know somehow that you are still interested, like maybe with some eye contact and a subtle smile, but nothing over the top. after that let him make the next move and just make yourself available to him. meaning if you know he will be somewhere try to be there also. whatever you do don't do too much and make him think you are obsessed or something. good luck.
2006-10-04 15:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys are by far more gaurded with there feelings and would prefer not to draw attension to there feelings for people, i mean public rejection big no no. nothing worse than being shot down by a girl with all her friends watching, the fact that he danced with you displays some intrest. just try flirting like hell see i he responds
2006-10-04 22:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by Adam B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are worth more than waiting around for a guy. Concentrate on you and your life and when you realize that you do not 'need' a man in your life and that you 'want' someone there - it will be much more enjoyable and possibly long lasting.
2006-10-04 21:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by gillybomb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you looked unapproachable. Your friends made him intimidated. Try to see him alone and ask him to dinner, or to a basketball game or school event. Even homework.
You need to play it cool and try to deal with him without the friends as they may have scared him.
2006-10-04 22:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends embarrassed him at the dance and he doesn't want to take that chance again. Just leave him alone for awhile and see what happens.
2006-10-04 21:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, girl try to talk to him & ask him what u did wrong?? I think he probably likes u but his too nervous too tell u...or u can always write a letter to him & tell him how u feel...Good LUCK!!!
2006-10-04 21:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by solymar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet up with him away for friend and talk to him face to face for real. he will respect that may not go out with you but you will find out why
2006-10-04 21:54:06 · answer #7 · answered by redtitan2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to him and talk to him. he might think u are ignoring him!
2006-10-04 21:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by Katy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be pushy give it time
2006-10-04 21:56:05 · answer #9 · answered by jaded2809 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants no confrontation..with your quimical..give it time
2006-10-04 21:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by lins 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋