I mean he keeps asking me 2 the dance!!
2006-10-04 14:38:25 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if he keeps asking you after you have told him no, then it sounds like he has a problem ... there is nothing you can do about his problem, so please try not to feel bad.
If you have to, maybe just nicely but FIRMLY say, No once again and say, I am sorry but I do not feel that way about you.
Good luck.
2006-10-04 14:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by J.Z. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you keep saying no, and he keeps asking you, then maybe its cause he doesnt know why ur telling him no. Dont yell it at him, take him somewhere where no one will see u guys and tell him the reason you dont want to go to the dance with him. If you dont have a reason to say no and u just dont want to go with him then tell him politly that u just dont want to go with him. When he finds out what the reason is then maybe he will stop asking you. Its worth a shot. But remember...be nice!
2006-10-04 14:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by Deathkiss911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys never get what girls are saying believe me take it from some one who knows.They think when you said "no" its just saying "TRY HARDER" and we are not!We know this but they don't tell him you have a boyfriend and you are not interested,if he keeps pressing it tell him straight up! "I don't have the same feelings as you and if you keep trying to go out with me i will have some on stronger than me have a little chat with you! Thank you!
Good luck
2006-10-04 14:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, you don't know how to dance? Tell him! Ask him to teach you how. And ask him not to get angry if you step on his feet a thousand times!
Seriously, if you really don't want to go out with him, show him that you don't like. Don't answer him because you already told him before, don't you?
2006-10-04 14:42:38 · answer #4 · answered by bembie719 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad for being upfront and honest. He'll appreciate it in the long run. It's better this way than to keep him lingering on, however I hope you turned him down nicely.
2006-10-04 14:40:34 · answer #5 · answered by california girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have a date, don't just say no. But he sounds like a die hard. Don't feel bad. about saying no... Hell if you wanna be a humanitarian because you feel bad, offer to find him a date to the dance!!! Someone like you...
2006-10-04 14:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y do u feel bad? because u said no?
if then, y don't u say yes?
but,
if u feel bad because his vocabulary is limited to yes, y dont u grab a partner to the dance so he wont be expecting you'd go alone...
2006-10-04 14:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by akoaypilipino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and straight forward but be respectful. Treat him like you would want to be treated. What goes around will come around (believe me) so be careful how you treat others. He will respect your honesty in the end. You show maturity by being honest. Try not to let your no be based on superficial reasons or to only please your friends that may reject him.
2006-10-04 14:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem, a guy kept asking me out and i kept saying no, now he is my boyfriend of two years
2006-10-04 14:41:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sleep with him once and drop him like a bad habit. or go to the dance.
2006-10-04 14:40:16 · answer #10 · answered by Biker 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋