Well, I lived in Ohio about 2 years ago, and I had a boyfriend while I was up there, and I ended up falling in love with him. When I moved down to Florida(where I am now) a year ago, we stopped talking completely. Then in about January, he called me and we started talking again. He asked me out, and being in the state that I was in, I said yes. So, from January to June, we talked every day on the phone and online. I then went up to Ohio to visit my family, and I saw him. It felt really awkward. I didn't want to fall back in love with him again, or else I wouldn't have left. So, I broke up with him. Then last week, he popped up online and started back up again. He started telling me how much he misses me and wants to be with me and wants me in his arms, and I loved it. I don't want to keep talking to him, but I hurt when I don't. I can't ever get him out of my head, though I try. I just don't think I could handle the emotional rollercoaster that comes along with him. What should I do?
2006-10-04 14:36:00 · 7 answers · asked by doggirl192 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had similar problem..and I made mistake..I let it go..I've chosen like this and this was mistake..
Don't let it go..if you love him..never let go something like this..never mind how far or long are you separated..what will be will be..
2006-10-04 14:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by vall 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You keep talking to this man and then think you are gonna be able to get him out of your head? I hate to tell you this but it doesnt work that way........the more you talk to him online, talk to him on the phone, email him or have contact in anyway with him at all you will continue to have him inside your head and inside your thoughts.
let me ask you this......is it the emotional roller coaster or is it the distance thats between the two of you that is making it hard for you to let yourself love this person or to let him love you. From the sounds of it you both pretty much are into each other, but if you are serious about not wanting to talk to him anymore then you will have to discipline yourself not to talk to him online, no phone calls, no emails and no regular mails either.....the only way to get someone out of your head and it will take time...is to totally block them out of your life and it wont be easy.
I would recommend you sit down and think about this decision you are making.....take time to evalute your feelings and pray then make your decision.
I wish you the best ....God Bless!
2006-10-04 14:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 12:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your thinking about the distance, well that doesn't matter if you really love him don't let him pass you away. There is a saying that lightnings strikes but once and if it hits you twice that lightning was meant for you. Meaning your destined to be for life. Good Luck!!! ^_^
2006-10-04 14:51:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jowi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You saw him and the chemistry wasn't there...detach yourself. You sound a lot like me. I have problems breaking up with people, in fact, they always seem to break up with me. It's probably because the relationship is going sour and I drive them to it. This sounds like your future if you just don't call it quits. It's hard but do it.
2006-10-04 14:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by strong and soft 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
block him on your IM's and tell him not to call you any more , then find some one new close to where you live, and things will get better. Good Luck
2006-10-04 14:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by stormyjoem 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him you want to be friends and only friends.
2006-10-04 14:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋