Where would i find out about another women carrying our child for us?

Question

I am 41 yo and am unable to carry another child but would love a child with my new partner.

Answer 1

My heart goes out to you. Iam 40 and had our son 16 years ago and then I had to have a complete hysterectomy and cannot have more children so I truly do know how your heart aches for children! You can try through a private adoption lawyer- or an ad in the paper even or over the net. PLEASE be very very careful selecting the woman who will do this for you. Have your basis covered with her and an attorney! Good luck to u and my heart is with you

Answer 2

That would be something that I would love to do, but my son is only 8 months old right now, so I don't think I would be able to handle being pregnant again right now!

Also, I have no idea where you are, so we could be thousands of miles apart!

But I have looked into this a tiny little bit, and this is what I've discovered:

You need to find a girl that has already had at least one healthy baby. The girl needs to be at least 18 (obviously...), and a non-smoker already, and try for a non-drinker, too.

You both need to sign a contract beforehand unless you really trust her, and you'd have to be willing to pay all of her medical bills relating to the pregancy, as well as some additional money for compensation. I looked up what the average sum came up to, but I can't remember that right now.

I did a quick google search for 'surrogate mother' and had 2,580,000 hits. There are a lot of sites on there that look promising. The link to it is posted.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Alot of people do this,I would look online,they have a few places with ads. They also have men that "breed" with your wife to conceive,so it would be along those lines. I actually have a friend that I offered to do this for,since she couldnt have children. Nothing is wrong with it I believe,and Good luck!