i'm 15 yrs old. i dated this guy for a year and we're practically broken up. and evey ttime i tihnk about him or whatever, i get physically sick (vomiting) as a result im afraid to eat knowing my mood swing could strike at any minute! andd i'm never hungry and even when i am for some reason i won't eat! what should i do?
2006-10-04 14:04:45 · 21 answers · asked by hugznkizzez101 2 in Food & Drink ➔ Other - Food & Drink
You should go see your doctor.
Did you "do" anything with this guy to cause the "moodswing"?
i hope its not what i think!
you could just be sick or have a virus.
rest and take care!
2006-10-04 14:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It hurts to break-up, doesn't it? You did the absolute right thing by asking for help. The nausea, and not eating, if it has lasted for more than a day or two, is not normal. Please see someone you trust, an adult, and get some help. Some choices are your doctor, your parents, your grandparents, your school counselor, even an administrator [at my school we had vice-principles, assigned to groups of students]. And listen to what they say. Meanwhile, make sure you are getting enough fluids. Try cola or lemon-lime drinks, hot tea, crackers, these do not usually cause nausea.
And I have to say this, do not be offended, I'm just being an adult. Do you need to go see the gynecologist, because you might be pregnant? If so, please go. Soon. Meanwhile, do a over the counter pregnancy test, read the directions to see when to do one. Are there other symptoms, of the need to go see a gyn doctor?
If you are having mood swings, that is the second reason you need to get some help, if they have lasted more than a couple days, that is not normal, either.
It is easy advice to tell you you will feel better, that this too will pass, and it might. You are grieving, even though no one has passed away. It is good to grieve, and good to get over that phase, and on with your life, and, with time, this might happen. . Speed up the process and get some help. Sometimes, it doesn't go away on it's own. It is not shameful, or a sign of weakness, to ask for help. It is a sign of strentgh, and maturity.
Good luck, I see you have lots of support for you and your question.
2006-10-04 22:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by riversconfluence 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't eat because your lovesick.... It's normal.. You will eat when the time comes and you will settle down.... In the meantime, you can have some fun with this breakup... Play some mind games with him so he will get so upset that he can't eat... Start tomorrow by ignoring him.. then ignore him some more. Make him wonder why you stopped caring. Make him look for you because your not in the same places he knows you will be.... If he comes one way then you turn around and go the other. Be nice but cool... Do everything differently that you did before and don't tell one soul what you are pulling.. Because they will tell and it will ruin in...He will eventually come back because he won't be able to stand it.....
2006-10-04 21:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by Lea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're having symptoms of a broken heart. Try to eat just a little...a bite at a time and DON'T get dehydrated. The best way to mend a broken heart is to find someone new. Speed up the process and dump this guy completely. I know that it's easier said than done but get rid of him and find someone else.
2006-10-04 21:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eat anyway, and take a multivitamin. Even when you dont feel like eating you need to do it anyway. Your body cant function right if it is lacking in nutrients. And if you two are no longer together, dont let him hold so much sway over you. Let your mind come to the realization that you are okay and youre going to fine, and your apitite will come back soon. Good luck
2006-10-04 21:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Breakups are very emotional times and can cause you to have physical problems like no appetite, etc. Try to distract yourself by hanging out with other friends, or taking up a hobby. Eat small meals and healthy snacks so you stomach won't get too upset.
2006-10-04 21:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep busy and listen to Beyonce's new cd, B-Day! Especially 4 and 9. You will be fine, just remember how young you are! I know you've probably heard that 15 times, but seriously, you are going to go through so much more during your life that soon this will be so insignificant you'll barely remember it!
2006-10-04 21:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by cjscrub 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he your first BF?hey everything that is first really hurts....what is really the cause of your problem?Remember you're too young..I understand how you feel....Sometimes you have to let love just come your way...you dont always have to join the raise...because we might not know...in the end you will get hurt..Might as well concentrate on your studies..because when you're finish school...guys will just run after you...PLease dont starve yourself to death....take care
2006-10-04 21:15:05 · answer #8 · answered by xrae12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents that you need to talk to a counselor that specializes in eating disorders/teens.....She will become a best friend without a voice & more importantly, she will refer you to a dietician before this gets further out of hand....Good Luck & hang in there - it WILL get better...
2006-10-04 21:11:22 · answer #9 · answered by sandypaws 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh darling really sorry for u should give him a call and see if by the emotion u can eat if not u should go and see the psicollogyst or a nutrition doctor or both but please try eating anything even water with sugar
2006-10-04 21:38:05 · answer #10 · answered by Dalia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋