we know each other 4 a long time and now we talk and every body making a big deal out of it
2006-10-04 13:46:53 · 28 answers · asked by tiffany h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeahh. it`ll pretty much depend on you`re age. if you`re still in middle school then. iono about if it`s right or not. but if you guys are in the end of high school i think it`s cool. good luck ! =]
2006-10-04 13:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see anything wrong with it. Four years older is not a big deal to me and I know alot of people who have dated someone with this age difference. If people are making a big deal out about this it may be because of your age. If youre 16 and under, i could see how people would disapprove. Being 16 and dating a 20 years old isnt common in most relationships but hey, some people dont care. Im 17 and I have considered dating someone who is 21. That is not a big age difference to me. It really depends on how you carry yourself. You need to be mature. It seems to me like youre not so sure about dating a guy with a four age gap. It shouldnt matter what everyone else thinks to tell you the truth thou. Age is nothing but a number. Look at Demi and Ashton, also Justin and Cameron. Although, theyre famous couples they arent the only people who are dating older people. The relationship should be between you and your guy, not between anyone else.
2006-10-04 13:52:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends.
It scares people a little because relationships with older people are always a little iffy just because you're probably on different levels of maturity. You have different objectives, different wants and needs. Then again, that goes for everyone. You just have to be especially careful if you're involved with someone older.
There's nothing wrong with it if you feel comfortable with it and he's not hurting you or forcing you to do anything.
2006-10-04 13:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey u do what u feel in your heart. I'm 34 and my husband is 54 and we have been married for almost 4 yrs in december. The people on your back are probably jealous. Hope I helped u out some.
2006-10-04 13:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by haleyb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on how old you are. From the spelling and language, I don't think you're old enough to be dating at all.
My man is 4 years younger than me but we are both in our 30s and it isn't a problem.
2006-10-04 13:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there isn't anything wrong.
The man I'm going to marry is 9 years older than I am, and my parents are 20 yrs apart and have been happily married for 20+ years!
2006-10-04 13:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by marypaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on how old you are. If you are 21 or older then I don't think age matters too much. If you are younger than that, then yes age does matter. If this guy wants to date you, then he will wait until you are older.
2006-10-04 13:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by Just wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are both 18 and older. who cares. I like a guy that is 17 years older than me.
2006-10-04 13:49:16 · answer #8 · answered by L♥G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age makes no difference. my man is 10 yrs older than me. The older the better i think
2006-10-04 13:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by sunflowerchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf is 4 years older than i am and it's great!
you should try it..especially if you guys get along very well...
=)
and yea i've been with my bf for almost 3 yrsnow and i knew him b4 for a long time too...
2006-10-04 13:53:39 · answer #10 · answered by Cutie77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋