2006-10-04 13:41:34 · 25 answers · asked by loudmouth3050 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When they do women think they a are a wussy.Besides feelings are just feelings.They are in no way based in reality.Just because a person "feels" something does necessarily mean it is true.It is just a physiological neuro-chemical reaction in our brains,nothing else.If I feel something I examine it and get rid of it.Feelings will just mess things up if you always take them at face value,and believe them to be reality.It is imperative to keep intellect over emotions in all dealings;personal,social,and business.The man that shot those girls in that Amish school is a perfect example of letting emotions rule over intellect.Bad things can happen.That is an extreme example,for most people it means things like:Thinking we're in love,or that someone will love and respect us after that one night stand on Friday.Sometimes it's even...Maybe if I have sex with them they will love me.See how feelings mess lives up...Do ya get the picture now?
Since most women base their lives and actions on their feelings,and feelings are not reality most of the time.What does that tell you about the ladies? Lol
2006-10-04 14:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by yablomee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Genetically they weren't taught to express themselves as Boys so they grow up and we are left to deal with the Boys in Mansize bodies. = Manchild! Its sad but true!
However, they can learn to express themselves IF THEY WANT TO, but it is a way of Unlearning everything they have ever been taught about "Sucking it up & movin on". A lot Men see weakness in too much expression, but the Real Guys know how to express themselves and they realize that Women love them more for it!
If you have an unexpressive guy, there is hope but ONLY if he WANTS to learn. If he doesn't he will do exactly what he has been taught in life, he will just "Suck it Up & Move On!
Take Care
2006-10-04 20:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by Just My Thoughts... 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We do, you just need to be willing to listen. Stop looking for double and hidden meanings and actually listen to what we say. If we say we are not mad, then really, we are not mad.
Of course there are exceptions to every rule anyway. Many men are great communicaters and will express all of their emotions. On the flip side there are women who will not communicate.
Have a good sit-down with the guy, and actually listen to him. You will find that you will understand what he feels.
2006-10-04 20:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by artisticallyderanged 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are a few reasons...
They don't know how to express ourselves. We need multiple choices and then to pick one.
We have a hard time of putting stuff out there that may comeback to being used against us.
We like to hold things in because we have always been taught to "be a man". So that just comes along with the territory.
2006-10-04 20:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by coolbeanfive 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We do! All the time! Women never listen, or else they hear what they want to hear! Men express themselves differently than women do, women will get together and have a crying session, men deal with things much differently, either by physical exertion(working out, shooting hoops, golf, whatever) or we quietly work it out ourselves, come to terms with whatever the issue was, and get on with our lives. If you want a crying, whining, emotional man, you're better off getting a kitten from the spca.
2006-10-04 20:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by boker_magnum 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men are taught to be tough and tough means non-emotional for most men. Some men can express their feelings, usually a sign of maturity and self-confidence.
What is your real question?
2006-10-04 20:44:45 · answer #6 · answered by shakopcool 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men do, it's just that we don't elaborate which is what a woman expects. Women just don't get it that when we say nothing is wrong in a 3 word sentence we usually mean just that so no need to elaborate.
2006-10-04 20:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by the_news_junky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because they have a hard time thinking with 2 heads. Unfortunately the one that does the thinking for them is the wrong one.
2006-10-04 20:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because, they have to first learn how to put the lid down on the toilet. LOL Who knows, but to be honest there are alot of gals out there that don't say what they mean or mean what they say.
2006-10-04 20:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its an ego thing. So if he don't express his feelings then you dont. I just learned to act like them if they get that way, you cant worry about it. every man is different so dont treat them the same.
2006-10-04 20:45:02 · answer #10 · answered by LTA 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋