CHOICE #1
I belive my fiancee has cheated on me sinnce day one. I met a girl that said that he had been with her. But he denies it.I love him alot but there has been so many problems. Things have been getting so much better with us but there is still something fishy about him.I could tell you about so many things that has happend wrong and so many things that has happend good.
CHOICE # 2
I have a ex friend that really likes me. We kinda had a thing for eachother a while back. He treats me with so much respect But hes 9 years older than me I'm 18 he is 27. We kinda had some drama in the past with him starting to like my cusin but thats all over with. I'm kinda talking to him again behind my Fiancee back. Were not talking about anything wrong though.
Who do I choose. My Fiancee who i think has been cheating. Or my friend???
2006-10-04 13:30:29 · 12 answers · asked by x0hEEE 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've kinda been with # 2 He was never my BF but he was like my frind with benifits i kinda messed up our relationship
2006-10-04 13:35:29 · update #1
I think that if your haven second thoughts about the guy your to marry then cut if off. if he cant even be honest with you then what future do you too have. i think you should cut it off wait a little bite and see how you are feeling then if your heart wants this other guy then go for it.. but wait a little bit cause you dont know if your heart wants this other guy now cause of you feeling so lost cause of the guy your too marry
2006-10-04 13:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose neither. Here are the reasons:
1. You should always listen to those nagging feelings that all is not well with your fiance. Your gut feeling that something fishy is going on is almost sure to be right on! You need to get out of that relationship and don't look back. He will bring you nothing but occasional joy and almost constant worrying and heartache sooner or later.
2. At the age of 18, you have lots of time to play the field and not grab the first guy who you're attracted to. In fact, no matter what age you were, I would advise you against these two men.
3. The fact that you are wavering between the two guys and talking to your ex-friend behing your fiances' back tells me you aren't committed enough to be tied down to one man.
4. Let your friend remain your friend. Do not, I repeat, do not let it become anything but friendship. If that's not enough for him, tell him to move on. Again, at 18, a 27 year old is too old for you and you will find he might respect you but he also might try to control you and always be trying to be the boss. Keep an eye open for this.
5. Even though you want one of these guys to be "the one for you", I truly and honestly believe you will be better off and find someone more suited to you if you break clear from both of these guys and start having fun with other young people and enjoying the rest of your teen years. I wish you all the luck in the world. Don't let either of these guys try to talk you into being their one and only, pleeeeze.
2006-10-04 20:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by Lean on Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple none of the folks you discribe are ready for an adult relationship theres too much back play and slipping around ,,if you love someone enough to have children and live together for eternity, then marry ,dont waste your youth and time on the planet with old dudes ,,and skeezers that cheat ,,get a man thats got goals beyond hitting and running ,,your too young to marry.. especially too soon without some counseling about it ,,see a reverand or an older married woman in your family ,,ask questions then think before tieing the knot
2006-10-04 20:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys always cheat. women need to accept this, and sometimes allow him to have threesomes with you and a girl of his choice. Pick #1, because #2 will only be nice until he gets in your pants.
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2006-10-04 20:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it's hard to found a true answer or impossible
lets your feeling choose it for you
see which you like more & don't go for easy one , casue maybe you will have less troubel with him but without too much attraction or love , it's get like empty life .
it's not to found a good one and even harder to keep it
anyways it's so personally so choose it wisely
sorry for my bad english
gl
2006-10-04 20:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by Soap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you cant trust eather of them. You need to meet some other people.
2006-10-04 20:33:10 · answer #6 · answered by E'Shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your fiancee about how u feel and then take action
2006-10-04 20:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by please 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go with choice #2. even if he is 9 years older than u. just please dont get married till ur atleast 21
2006-10-04 20:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by Varsity18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to the evil that you know
2006-10-04 20:32:25 · answer #9 · answered by Donald M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about door number three?
2006-10-04 20:32:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋