well i dated this guy for 8 months then we borke up and he came back a month later, i took him back we broke up a month later, then another month later he came back. i'm only 15. its barely been 2 weeks, and he's confused about stuff and i just want to tell him i'm sick of waiting for him to make up his mind..i know that's what i should do but for some reason I can't. I think i may have a self esteem problem. i don't know if i'm desperate to have a boyfriend or what...ladies what would you do?
2006-10-04 13:24:00 · 14 answers · asked by hugznkizzez101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I would break up with him. It sounds like he might not be ready to have a committed relationship. Maybe the 2 of you should just try being friends for a while.
2006-10-04 13:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by cfschweppes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in your shoes before. Look at it this way, you are 15 and I can probably bet that there are a lot more guys out their that would have a lot better chance of sticking around. By the sounds of it he is trying to choose between girls because he can't just stay with you. You are young and fearless just keep telling yourself that. You have a lot of life ahead of you and he is just going to be a headache. So step on out and be a ferocious female. Single isn't all that bad.
2006-10-04 20:30:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is using you. as a long time sufferer of low, make that no self esteem, I can understand why it is hard for you to let him go. I'm not going to lie to you, it will be very hard to stand firm and dump his butt, but you are only 15 and have your whole life to find a wonderful person who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. I finally did and he makes me feel like a million bucks. Please don't settle for this guy because he obviously doesn't know a good thing when he's found it. good luck chickie.
2006-10-04 20:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the guy and move on. he's just playing you. its not worth you stressing over it. the guy's an idiot. you can do way better...you know, like someone who actually likes you and is willing to work things out with you instead of calling it quits every other month. good luck
2006-10-04 20:27:22 · answer #4 · answered by xeternal_heavnx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you r in a pretty hard situation...but it depends...when you are with him...how do u feel? Does he treat you right? Do you feel safe around him? if so...just tell him that you dont want to keep breaking up and getting back together just tell him to make up his mind its either he wants to be with you or not. If he treats you wrong or something...then you be the one to break up with him...ok...well i hope things go well to you and i wish you the bestest luck.
2006-10-04 20:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had the same problem you had and trust me you not desperate for a boyfriend you just in love and dint know what to do and you feel sorry for him just tell him whats on your mind and tell him you have to move on
2006-10-04 20:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by kenya cordaro green 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crikey thats tricky, if you miss him when hes gone then i guess you should just tell him you want too be with him but not till he is sure he wants you. you are so young so it will be confusing but let me tell you it dont get much easier, be strong dont rush in too dating another guy see what happens.
2006-10-04 20:29:41 · answer #7 · answered by Diane E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's taking advantage of you, because he knows you'll run back to him. That's not good. If I were you I'd dump him. Make sure he really likes you.
2006-10-04 20:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by Morgan<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really like him? if you don't dump him first this time and ignore him completely because he doesn't seem like he cares what you think, its like he is just joking around not taking you seriously he proably think you will always be there for him so my advice leave him
2006-10-04 20:32:07 · answer #9 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i where you......I would just go and find a new guy......cause an ex is always an ex,and this boy sounds alot like a player.you really need to stop thinking about this boy and please move on
2006-10-04 20:29:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋