Yeah soo i know this sounds stupid but im 18 and never have drank alcohol...ever. My boyfriend wants me to drink with him this weekend just me him and 2 other people. I am kinda nervous about it because its not really me. I just don't know what to do.
2006-10-04 13:15:59 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Food & Drink ➔ Beer, Wine & Spirits
hell naw u shouldn't drink if u aint that type of person! jus bcuz ur boyfriend wants u to do something dont mean u gotta do it! if u aint comfortable doin that kinda shyt then dont even if u are 18 and have never gotten drunk!!!! thats a good thing!!! if u do decide to drink den be careful and dont drink too much!!!!! make sure u are not taken advantage of!!!
2006-10-04 13:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by MARTHA 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel comfortable with it then don't do it. Drinking alcohol and getting drunk isn;t as"cool" as many people think. I spent my teenage years hanging out and a lot of the time drinking - I never drank too much though as I would start to feel sick before I got really drunk. I did watch my best friends get rotten drunk though and pass out in their own vomit - really not an attractive look!! People's values and morals can change after a few drinks and you start to say and do things that you normally wouldn't say or do.
Also out of all the drugs and mind altering substances alcohol is the worst for your system. You can be addicted to any other drug and the withdrawal symptons will be bad but if you are an alcoholic and you stop cold turkey - there is a chance you may die!!
It is so not worth getting drunk for a few thrills - or so your boyfriend can have a few thrills!
Besides - most alcohol tastes like crap anyway!!
2006-10-04 14:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by purity14kb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im 15 and i deffinately have had my share of getting drunk. some would say im a little bit of an alcoholic. once i start drinking i cant stop. so my advise to you is if you are uncomfortable about it talk to your boyfriend. he should understand and not pressure you into it. and if you want to then maybe only drink 2-5 shots( if your drinking hard alcohol) or 3-5 beers. that way you will get buzzed but not drunk. because it is your first time it will taste probably grose. i still dont like many beers and am more of a hard alcohol kinda girl. but just take it easy and dont drink to much. getting drunk your first time drinking isnt fun.
2006-10-04 17:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by Ky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same boat as you about a year ago - never drank, wasn't sure if I should. Ended up drinking WAYYY too much and got terribly sick that night. My advice - drink casually, there is nothing wrong with it and it gives you a cool "buzz" sensation when you do. Just enjoy the time and don't drink every single weekend to where it affects your life. It doesn't have any negative effects on the body at all (unless you drink like every day).
Best advice: Drink a lot of water before going to bed!
2006-10-04 13:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by Greg S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you want an answer I would give my children or what.Well here goes the father,No you are much to young and you wrote this is not you.You have a lot of life left to start drinking think about all the 18 year old children that has had car wrecks and died that are not with us tonight.Well I am a Father I lost my son last year because he did not ask or listen.You have a lot of years to get drunk and wake up with a headache and sick that is all you get the next day so why do it.
2006-10-04 13:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by Douglas R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...I say you shouldn`t do anything you don`t want to...I would say you shouldn`t drink too much,a glas or two would be enough for your "first time"....because you probably heard how good it is to be drunk,but has anyone told you how you feel the next day when you wake up? headackes,stomachackes,everything will hurt,you will look like you were sick,and your hair...awfull,this will happen only if you drink too much...and these are just a part of the side effects...when you are drunk,you aren`t really thinking anymore,you will maybe do things you will regret the second day,you can`t know how your brain reacts at alcohool for the first time...
I am not saying,never ever drink,I always drink a glas,or two,but not more,cause as a girl it just doesn`t look good...and you won`t feel good...I got once in my life really drunk...you don`t want to know the way I embarassed myself in the club...I will never do that again.
drinking alkohool is not about getting drunk,like you would be an alkoholic,after my opinion,noone should take more than he can handle...
The answer given from golden,the 4th,is good aswell,and if you decide to drink more than one or two glases,drink also alot of water,and as she wrote,drink slowly.
2006-10-04 13:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by donatella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink about 2 drinks over an hour or two and see how it affects you. Drink slowly so they do not keep filling your glass.
Do not mix different types of alcohol since that will surly make you sick.
It serves no purpose to drink a lot to impress or keep up with your friends and spend the next day hugging the toilet, throwing up with a horrible headache.
Make sure you eat a good meal before/while drinking and drink plenty of water before going to bed.
Oh, by the way, you are under aged as I am sure you are aware.
Do not drive nor ride with your drinking friends and do not be surprised to find yourself having to call your parents to bail you out.
2006-10-04 13:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a experience but don't let people not even your boyfriend try to make you believe its so cool or its all that because its not. You act completely out of character and no one but the other drunk fools think its great. If you taste different drinks you may find one that is good to your taste buds but to drank just to drank, nah.
2006-10-04 17:08:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noone should drink just to get drunk!!!!!!! That's not what the experience is all about. Most responsible people drink because they enjoy wine or spirits for refreshment . Getting drunk has too many negative things that come as a result, i.e. DUI's, making an *** of yourself, saying things you don't mean and depending too much on over drinking.
2006-10-04 13:35:12 · answer #9 · answered by Murphyboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off your not of legal age to be drinking. Secondly if your boyfriend is trying to get you drunk it can't be a good sign. I wouldn't do it if I were you, but if you wanna drink go head just keep in mind that you could not remember anything from the night, you could and probably will puke all over yourself (not attractive) and someone could seriously take advantage of you. You could wind up pregnant or even worse.
2006-10-04 13:27:34 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋