REJECTED!!
this is about the only girl i like at school,shes kinda quite,not slutty and is pretty but she doesnt talk to that many guys (flirting, etc.)
does that mean shes not interested in having a Boyfriend? I dont wanna mess up since like i said earlier shes about the only girl i like at school! What should i do?
2006-10-04 13:13:19 · 22 answers · asked by XZELSOR 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but how do i befriend her when everytime i see her in the hallways shes with her friends and i rarely see her alone,but when i do i talk to her
2006-10-04 13:25:57 · update #1
She's probably shy. Ask her out. Even if you're rejected you won't have to worry about getting rejected because it will be over with
2006-10-04 13:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by MI6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in order to appreciate the spring, one must endure the winter.
this basically means, you cant gain anything without having to take risks. start of befriending her...don't just hit on the girl. be her friend and get to know her as a person, rather than a target. if things between the two of you are good, maybe you should then start hinting or just go out and say that you like her. she might feel the same way too.
2006-10-04 20:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by xeternal_heavnx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is the only one you like, If you will be rejected there will be none left to dream about. But you really have to try. You will never know until you do this. Maybe she has some very good reasons not to be interested, and I am sure she will tell you about if you will ask her. And remember, try to be also her good riend (not only a boyfriend) Maybe this is what she is looking for.
2006-10-04 20:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by marinam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not flirting very much doesn't mean that she doesn't want a boyfriend. Become her friend first. And don't be nervous to ask her out. Just be yourself, whether you think she'll like the real you or not. If you really care about her, tell her. Girls love that kind of thing!
2006-10-04 20:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by cfschweppes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can NOT be scared of the word "NO". you'll hear it way more than you do "YES" throughout your life. take a chance and instead of asking her out, just strike up a conversation with her. there may be a reason that she doesn't talk very much and you can't go based on looks alone. if nothing else, you may have found a new friend. GL2U (good luck to you)
2006-10-04 20:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off don't be scared of rejection, the worst you could be told is no right. Well you need to get to know her first and then slowly go up on the scale then ask her out.
2006-10-04 20:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by Pinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try asking her out. Not all girls who are interested in having a boyfriend will flirt publicly. Of course, it's best to get on speaking terms with her first. If you just ask her out and she hardly has any idea who you are, you will be doomed to fail.
2006-10-04 20:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain! Maybe spend some time getting to know her first and then you'll be able to tell if she'd be interested in going out.
2006-10-04 20:16:46 · answer #8 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i can say is just ask her at the right time or a good time for u.and u need to know if she likes u or not.if u cant tell than just make a joke or something. like if she says no than just say that it was a dare or something
2006-10-04 20:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she talk to you? if yes you have your answer she is probably secretely waiting for you to ask her believe me sometimes this is what quiet girls are waiting for because they are scared to ask as well (so they have the same fear as you) and try and do something nice for her if she notices then ask her lol good luck
2006-10-04 20:23:46 · answer #10 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋