i never had a girl friend before in my life im a very nice guy but girls just dont want to be with me, they like other guys its no fair im crying right now i feel so heart broken, i try to find some one on my campus at college but the girls just dont want to be with me, i been lonely without friends for along time since middle school, i ******* hate guys who have a group of girls its no fair i wish all these other guys would just die and rot in hell, plus im autistic its no fair my life sux
2006-10-04 12:45:57 · 17 answers · asked by DMR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well what I can tell you is "sexy guys" are not all about the looks. It's attitude for the most part. It's confidence that girls are attracted to. How are you putting yourself out there? Are you very eager because sometimes girls do not like that. I know it's awful but maybe don't try so hard... Let it all just fall into place. Girls, or people in general can sense when someone is overly trying... Tell yourself that you're a worthy human being and then go out there and "just not care"... They'll come to you...
2006-10-04 12:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by KIm Z 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buddy you need to relax. Maybe your just looking in the wrong places. Are you looking for people you know might be out of your league? You have to go out and explore and try things out or you will never gain that confidence and never learn what girls want. There is someone for everyone you just have to realize that your worth it and that it takes time. I'm sure you have a lot to offer, maybe it's just that you get your hopes up with girls that might not be in your league. Try a different league out and see what comes up. I'm not saying to go out with the ugliest girl, but someone you think you might have a chance with. That may sound brutal, but everyone of us experiences it and gets to the point where they know their limits and standards. Gain that confidence and you'll gain more experience and find the right girl. Get out there and be yourself, don't try to be like those other guys, if you do, you won't find someone who truely likes you for who you are.
2006-10-04 19:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by Rogodogo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone who is more like you. I probably have Asperberger's Syndrome and was just never diagnosed. I don't have a problem getting girls to date, but I really hesitate to date a girl who isn't anything like me. We have trouble communicating and I never feel close to a girl like that. I feel lonely and end up unhappy. It sucks sometimes because it takes longer to meet more girls who are like me and understand me and I don't feel like I'm dating an empty-headed Barbie robot doll, but it's worth it. Please just be patient and don't lash out at other people. Hate will destroy your heart and soul. Don't do it. It will also drive away anyone who might be attracted to you. Don't go around angry.
2006-10-04 19:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweety,you are trying a little bit too hard.It shouldn't matter cuz you're autistic your girl will come to you when the time is right cuz you sound nice so don't rush it.See there problem is they like all these sexy-guys but those are the one's who are jerks to them and don't know how to treat a woman with respect,you will find ur soul-mate and when she comes make sure you hold on to her.
2006-10-04 19:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by Sister Queen Mama 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look up....try to pick yourself up. Those guys will most likely hurt those girls and when that happens you will be the person they go to. you have to befreind the girl you like and then show her the real you. some girls dont care but most end up realizing that the guys personality means a lot more than their looks. Just be optimistic and dont try so hard
2006-10-04 19:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by Tom R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Interesting...don't you realize that all the girls like the cute boys now because all the girls are still immature and don't really know what they want. When you are all older they will realize that the brains in the world are the ones who don't lie or cheat or abuse or mutilate...they ARE the ones who respect and Cherish and honor and remain married and provide happy lifestyles for their loved ones...good things come to those who wait...be patient...
2006-10-04 19:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oh poor thing. Look on the bright side, at least you don't have STD's or have little sperms running around right now all over the place.
2006-10-04 19:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by Contesta 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so much down. You will have a gf just be patient and wait for the right time to come around
2006-10-04 19:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you shouldn't feel that way...theres a women for every man and a man for every woman....just be patient...unless your like 80 yrs old.....you don't have to be gorgeous either....i rather be with someone thats not drop dead cute...so no one will take him from me....so there is someone out there that thinks the same as i do....and she is probably lookin for someone like you....have faith and don't put urself down...be more positive and you might get lucky...but get rid of the negativity first...you'll see the change...or try a makeover for yourself you will feel more confident...good luck
2006-10-04 19:56:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i prefer nice guts like u! all the other guy.. all the see in a girl is sex sex sex. i hav a lot of guy friends tht match ur description and thy never talk about sex. thy talk about things u would expect to have a conv. w/ a guy about. they are really nice and sweet. so ill b ur friend!!!!!!!!
good luck!
2006-10-04 19:51:05 · answer #10 · answered by JoAnne :) 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋