Would you say im a bad person for being 15 and i have a 2 year old son and im 7 months pregnant with my daught

Question

im just wondering if this makes me a bad person. ive takin really good care of my son and i hope i can do the same for my daughter. i just really need pl to talk to

Answer 1

I don't think that you are a bad person, but you are not being very smart in your decisions.

A 13 year old does not have the mentality, education, or financial means to have a child. And you added to that by getting pregnant again?

I think that you have something missing in your life that you are trying to get from these boys who are getting you pregnant. You really need to seek counceling to help you come to terms with this, and also PLEASE, get on some kind of birthcontrol, or better yet just stop having sex.

Answer 2

IT is not your mistakes that make you who you are hun it is what you do after. At any age having kids can be hard. I'd say that you are setting yourself for a life that is going to be harder than some but that doesn't make you a bad person. As far as I'm concerned if you are 15 and you have one kid and you are keeping this one too and you are doing your best you are better than 20+ mothers who either get an abortion or blame their kids for ruining their lives. My aunt had my cousin at 14 the she had 3 more kids before she was 20. She has had a difficult life that is for sure, but she did raise her kids the best she could and she is married to a great man now and has her own business. I would if I were you do everything you can not to have another one after this lol, I've got 2 kids myself, and one on the way, and it's difficult at any age. Specially if you do it alone. Is the father around? I would be proud of you for taking the responsiblity that you have taken. Having kids does not make you a bad person. And even if having kids at a young age is difficult, they are not mistakes, the way you got them may be considered to be lol. But kids are miracles no matter what and people who think other wise disgust me. I was 18 when I got pregnant with my daughter and 20 when I got pregnant with my son 22 with the baby I'm carryign now. And I'm married. My dad thinks they are horrible mistakes because I have ruined my life, can't do all the things I wanted to do. But I am ok with it. I am happy, and that should be what matters. I hope you have family that is going to stand beside you. And screw anyone who judges you hun. If you are doing the best you can with what you have I commend you and wish you luck!

Answer 3

This doesn't make you a bad person. I was also a young parent, I had my 1st when I was 15. My kids are 20yrs., 18yrs., and 11yrs. It's funny cause everyone always says, "that's your mom". The hard part with this is that you give up all the "normal" things that a teenager gets to do. One of my biggest guilt's was that I couldn't give them a lot. There wasn't any money. You have your whole life ahead of you. After your 2nd baby comes just wait awhile. I don't know your education or financial situation, but go get your education, start working, and eventually have a career. You will feel better getting out of the house and bettering yourself for your kids. Hope you have support, stay strong, and be responsible.

Answer 4

I would not say you are a bad person. I would say that having sex at such a young age is not such a good idea. Where are the so called fathers of the 2 year old and the one you are about to have? In jail I hope for statutory rape!! Have you considered not having sex until you are over 18 and in a stable relationship with a real man. In case you don't know what that is, a real man takes care of his responsibilities. A real man supports you financially and helps you with the kids. He is there for you when you want to have fun (not just sexually) and when you need to cry. He is there for the times when the children are feeling great and when they are sick. He takes care of the kids for a while while you go out with friends to a movie or lunch. And lastly....finish school!! Good luck to you.

Answer 5

I would not say that you are a bad person , but I think you need to slow down now. You have a boy, u are expecting a girl what more can you ask for. Now I think is the time for you to start putting your life together.

I had my son at 15 and now I am 21 and I am expecting my 2nd child which is a girl. I finish school and college (probably not with a bachelor but a associate degree for now) I am planning on going back to college after my daughter. Age is nothing but a number so go ahead and prove them people wrong who talks about us teen mothers. Email me anytime if you need somebody to chat with.

Answer 6

sweetie, no one knows your situation. No one knows if you were willing to have sex at such a young age, or if you were forced into it. As long as you understand the hardships and the responsibilities that come with having children, you are not a bad person. If you do your best to give those kids a chance in life, you are not a bad person. If you make a mistake you are not a bad person. and if you can learn from your mistakes, you are on your way to becoming the mature person you need to be. As long as you are always there for your kids, you will never be a bad person in my book. As for what other people think of you, the hell with it! good luck!

Answer 7

No i don't think that you are a bad person after all you did say that you were a very good parent to your 2 year old son, so I see that you should be happy. I don't hear most people your age talking about happiness with kids. Maybe you are a PATIENT person. and with patience come blessings. congratulations if you ever have ne problems you can email me [e-mail] i don't mind being your friend if you ever get lonely. Best wishes to you and your family.!!!!!

Answer 8

If you do your dead-level best to take care of your babies and provide for them everything they need then it doesn't matter what age you are. The best thing you can do is to finish school so that you can better support their needs. Kudos to you for doing what you do. I'm 22 with a 4 yr old 2yr old and an 11 month old and I'm in college and it is the hardest yet most rewarding life a person could ask for.

Good luck.

Answer 9

Does not make you a bad person. However you do realize that you're a baby having a baby? I ain't gonna hate on you for it, i was 14 when i first got pregnant but i lost the baby. Good luck to you and i hope you continue on with your education so u can give your children a good life!

Answer 10

hi nick dont difficulty :) Im 15 too, or perhaps nonetheless im a woman I understand the place your coming from. before everything i could desire to declare you nearly gave me a pay attention attack once you responded my question because of the fact the boy in the photos additionally a nick.. and nicely yea.. additionally, its a hundred% widely used! I particularly have ALOT of guy chum who're 15/sixteen and have never had a gf or kissed a woman or in spite of. this is a good ingredient because of the fact your waiting for the main remarkable lady and that's respectible. i think of your going to do basically fantastic, and so what in the experience that your no longer activities loopy, it means you have greater time for a girl chum ;) See what I did there? Dont continually think of of the negitives! Now as for this lady, you're able to choose for it. initiate chatting along with her, basically get to be her chum. yet I doubt she is the single, your youthful and such as you suggested, you have never had a girl chum so its greater of a universal love. basically you have to be her chum by using casual communication. Aslong as you dont smother her and continually message her and stuff she wont be creeped, and how are you able to be on her ideas in case you dont make a presence? :) try your superb!