Well, first of all, the girl I love is my Ex girlfriend, we went out for about 9 months, we never really argued, but we were really close. it was one of those high school relationships that seemed would last forever. then one day she left me and didn't say why. now she has her another guy, but she still shows signs she likes me still. now on the other hand, her best friend likes me alot, but i kinda like her too and we have alot of things in common. she is shy and really nice, but i dont know if i should wait for my ex to break up with this new guy, or go out with the next girl? im so confused..any suggestions?
2006-10-04 12:42:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really love your ex, and she still loves you... then fight for who you love!!
2006-10-04 12:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by chilean_sea_ass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say go for the girl who really likes you. If your ex left you wether she has feelings now or not there is a reason why she is with the guy she is with and not you. If you let go and stop holding on to the hope of being with your ex, you may discover, you could really fall in love with this new girl who sounds amazing, and maybe she wouldn't play with your heart like your ex did. In my experiences, sometimes it is best to use your head when making these decisions instead of your heart. Our hearts can lead us into very dark and painful places. But, this totally your choice. Do you think your ex would stay with you if you got back together or leave you again when some other guy comes along???
2006-10-04 12:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by curious_and_hopeful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about the ex! I realize it's hard, but the fact is she's already in a relationship and you've got another sweet girl who is willing (and maybe meant for you). Neeevvver wait around for ANY girl, EVER! It shows you're needy and it's a huge turn off for women. Never! If your ex still liked you she wouldn't be shagging some other dude, right? She wouldn't have left for no reason either! Move on and build something with this new girl. She's available now and likely, she's waiting for you – not the other way around.
2006-10-04 12:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is life... Your ex will probably always like you and you should be happy for that. Enjoy her friendship and cherish the memories you have with her. But she has moved on and so should you. Now you need to live your life and move on. Date her friend. If your ex gets upset tell her that it's better than you sitting alone and obsessing about her. I'm telling you from experience... the chances of you and your ex getting back together are slim to none. You will look back and wish you dated the friend. Don't feel guilty, you're just living your life.
2006-10-04 12:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never put your life on hold, waiting for someone else. Her life (Your ex) is flourishing and continuing on without you, so you should do the same. Besides, thats a maybe. Why should you sit around for a maybe? Makes no sense. If your es really wants to be with you, she would not be with that other guy. Never accept second place.
2006-10-04 12:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by tyrawooley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont waste your time waiting for your ex to break up with her bf..when she broke up with you she sent a clear message that you do no fill the void in her heart as harsh as it may seem..she chose to leave you for another guy, thats like taking your balls and setting them on fire..with all due respect....you should give your friend a chance and go out with her, youll be surprised, she probably is the girl you want and not your ex..but you have to give it time and dont give up easily,,your ex seems to like you but the truth is woman always want a backup just incase their relationships dont work ,,in other words...your ex might be leading you on so that if anything goes wrong with her relationship she can run back to you for comfort..and thats just cruel cus she is just using you..like i said..your friend tha likes you is the best choice, cus she is obviously waiting for you instead of gonig out with the next dude she see's like your ex..good luck dude..
2006-10-04 12:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.heres my suggestion, someone whom you have dated,there friends,girlfriends or anyone that had connections with the person you once dated is off limits.for instants,if your brother was dating a girl and they broke up and you thought you were attracted to her would you ask her out.no absolutely not she is off limits.you are putting the person they once dated in a very unconfortable position.and can cause you to spoil your friendship with them.think of how you would feel if you dated some girl and you broke up with her or she broke up with you,and then you find out your best friend is now dating her,do you think you could face them and be confortable in a conversation with them? i don' think so unless your cold hearted .if you want to date someone new make sure it's somebody that hasn't had contact with any of your friends past or present.it called common courtesy and respect.good luck pete
2006-10-04 13:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by THE SHADOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, the case with your ex is that u knew her and know how it would be, but the other is a case of getting to know, so be true to yourself and go after her with pen and paper etc.and hopefully you'll get to "continue" what you've started, never wait for a relationship to break up cause you'll be breaking up waithing for it to happen (that's what's happening to you.....right!)
2006-10-04 12:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by fraggle rocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the girl that best suits your needs. It seems like the girl that loves you will do that for you.
2006-10-04 12:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by Charles R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the single one! The ex dumped you for a reason (whatever her reason was) and would probably do it again once she got what she wanted from you.
2006-10-04 12:46:01 · answer #10 · answered by dabean003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋