She says that i have some thing i need to talk about. I really dont, she just thinks i drink and then get mad at her. She never drinks, until she started hangin out with one of her friends, now she loves to go get drinks? When i do it, its bad. Also, if she is not right, i am looked at as arguementative. Any relationship advice for a 22 year old guy?
2006-10-04 12:33:20 · 8 answers · asked by genuinecustomhomes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't ever do anything so that she will stay with you. She should want to stay with you. If she doesn't, then you can't make her.
2006-10-04 12:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by countrychic2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when she says you get mad, are you being abusive? That could signal a drinking problem and anger managment issues on your part. If you really care about her, go to couples therapy. It will let you get this off your chest as well. It won't all be blaming you.
2006-10-04 19:36:40 · answer #2 · answered by acholtz@verizon.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the alcohol out of your relationship. Then see how things are. Are they calmer, are you less argumentetive? Is she more open and friendly? See what differences are made. If there are no significant changes without the alcohol, then maybe it's time you two talk about things, honestly. Good luck.
2006-10-04 19:45:37 · answer #3 · answered by Bexcy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you have a drinking problem it will definately ruin your relationship with her. You both sound like you're young and so am I (24) - She probably wants to sit down and let you knwo that it bothers her and if you don't stop you will loose her. It's not pleasant to hear a lousy drunk scream and insult his woman. mY ex did that when he was drunk but only when he drank. I thnk you need help if you want to keep her. IF she drinks- don't worry about it- drink with her at her pace not to get drunk like you're doing now
2006-10-04 19:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by mari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get therapy!! some people are just really good at manipulating other people. that means shes just turnin' it around to make you look like the bad guy and your falln' for it.
2006-10-04 19:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by sbound_40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she wants you to go to therapy why don't you ask her to come with you to be there for each other
2006-10-04 19:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by wifyhere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound a little confused..maybe you guys should go out for drinks together..not just with your friends..maybe she's just lonely and wants to spend her time with you..or maybe not..
2006-10-04 19:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by SHONI L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch her! And find someone who isn't going to judge you!
2006-10-04 19:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋