2006-10-04 12:28:11 · 12 answers · asked by eviechatter 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just can't seem not to have a little doubt about whether a guy is being honest with me now.
2006-10-04 12:30:14 · update #1
It takes time to heal. You will know when you are ready to trust somebody again. Especially when you find love again it will just happen. Dont rush into it. Let your body and mind heal from all the pain and distrust you have gone through.
Just concentrate on yourself and and be with your family for support.
2006-10-04 12:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't easy that's for sure. The one thing you have to realize is that all men (or women) whatever the case are not all the same. Listen to your heart and take time to really get to know your next partner. Speaking from experience, I too made my way out of a very dangerous marriage. Not only was my ex verbally abusive but he was physically abusive as well. I was fortunate enough to have met a wonderful man whom I am now married to . We've been together over 8 years now and everything is wonderful! Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
2006-10-04 20:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by thebeesonbunch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there myself & it's very hard. But when you finale met the right man you'll know it. I did. Just do alot of praying & take your time. It want happen over night. I'm sorry this has happened to you I know that no words can discribe what you've been through. But I hope you have someone { a friend} you trust that you can talk to. It makes a big difference in your life. {Sorry but this is for bubbles shame on you for useing this persons question for your own.}
2006-10-04 19:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by smiley 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel like you can never truly, fully trust another human being. Why? Because we're all human, and everyone who's human will at some point let you down because they are imperfect. There's that. So I would concentrate less on trusting others again and more on trusting what rarely let's people down, which is instinct. In otherwords, learn to trust in yourself and your judgement. Also learn to trust that whatever happens that you can get through it and that you will survive to love again. And when you do get to that place, trust but verify.
2006-10-04 19:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by inquiringmind 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take it slow and don't rush into anything. It is going to take time. I am in a similar situation after 27 years of marriage. I am having a rough time as well. Have you considered counseling?
2006-10-04 19:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by ladyleomiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine just left me now, we've had the same problem with her, she is about to divorce...
My advise to all of you:
Stop looking around, how many couples that you know are happy in their relation ??? how many couples you might envy ??? no one is happy, most of them are just together for lots of other reasons than love and understanding....
The love you see in movies, dose not exist except in the movies.. Stay alone, you will definitely lose something, but you will gain a lot of other things, first of them is you....
If you need sex, then get it, but don't get involved in a relationship that will never last..
2006-10-04 19:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by alo-bello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time, time, and more time. I still have trust issues. But each day gets better. Don't judge. Big key and do not compare.. It is hard but if you don't judge or compare your new mate with your old one learning to trust and love will come naturally. Not everyone is an *sshole.
2006-10-04 19:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by littlevae73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew. I'm in the same situation. I've been divorced for 2 years and am still trying to stop the fear. I'm actually thinking about going to counseling.
I wish you luck.
2006-10-04 19:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by Sabina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant hold everyone responsible for your last marriage..Everyone is diffrent and every man and woman is diffrent you have to put the past behind and take a stand on what your going to stand for and what your not going to stand for when you meet someone.. Just take it slow and learn the person before you commit....Good luck
2006-10-04 19:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by jenni g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't trust anymore. You can only trust that someone will trust you.
2006-10-04 19:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋