i dont like free time i dont like staying alone i dont like my very good friend ignoring me i dont like anything ..... i dont like my vacations .... just because ill have all the possible time in the world to sit and think... and the only thing i think of is this guy... who is supposedly ignoring me :'( i dont even know y is he doing that... he never replied to any of may mails... he never even bothered to get in touch after he left for london for studies.... (i sent him 3 mails ... 1 in each week)
hes a jerk ... i need help to forget him,,,,,, but those stupid lil conversations we hav had and those amazing moments where we have laughed ... i miss them... i really like him.... the fact that i he has to be editted out of my life doesnt just seem to get into my brain...
HELP!! plz.....
2006-10-04 12:27:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
VERY BAD POSITION. NO NEED FOR DEPRESSION. WHENEVER ONE PERSON LOSE THE CLOSE ONE THIS HAPPENED BUT IT IS ALSO TEMPORARY PHASE PLEASE BE ACCOMPANIED WITH YOUR OTHERS FRIENDS OR RELATIVE DO NOT SIT ALONE.
2006-10-04 16:31:34 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dear friend!
i would first suggest you to make yourself fully involved in some work or other.. may be a small house chores or some preparation for your studies or work. cos being idle will give useless thoughts. (An idle mind is devil's workplace). Moreover if that guy has not replied u or never cared to contact you jus b cos u both had a misunderstanding.. then its worth waiting for him to reply... may be u need to make sure now and then that you care for him by sending him soe occasionak mails... But if he has not been replying u or not contactin u for no reason.. then in my personal view he is jus another normal "GUY". who wanted to spend his time flirting wit u and trying to ditch u out.
May be all i would ask u is.. Be patient.. If u have decided once for all he is no more important then go ahead and never look back... Just concentrate on your future rather than thinking about the past that was like a poison. I wish u all the very best for your future and dreams come true. A loving friend.. Rajesh
2006-10-04 19:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by Rajesh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your mind set up which is making you beleive that you cannot forget him. It is not necessary to do so also. You have cherished the lovely moments of your life with him so why try to expect more.but those stupid lil conversations we hav had and those amazing moments where we have laughed ... i miss them... i really like him....! These are lame excuses that you want to keep away from all vacations. You turn round and see how many people are strugling with this sickness. You are at the begining stage/. So please cherish these memories and enjoy life. He has gone to a place when sex and relations hold no much importance. Ok?
2006-10-05 00:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by lkslalit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there, no need to be scared...sometimes these things just grip us and wont leave us alone until we let them go. The irony is is that its really hard to let go until you have moved forward and possibly even met someone else and then youre halfway there anyways. It sounds to me as if you are grieving the loss of this guy who was a very important person in your life...do it...grieve,wail,cry,throw stuff at the wall(when youre alone or they might lock you up! lol) and go through all the emotions you need to...you arent silly you can see what he's done you just feel bitter and mad and sad because he has done this and you are entitled to...acknowledge and accept how you feel,go with the flow and take each day as it comes dont try too hard to get over it too quickly,you are asking a lot of yourself if you do...allow the hurt to come and go and it will eventually feel better...hope this helps and if you ever need to talk feel free to mail me and i'll do my best to help...;0)
2006-10-04 19:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those little convos can make you feel something that isn't there, leaving you an emotional mess.
What you need to do is ask him just once and then stop talking to him all together , what it is that makes him edit you out of his life ?
Once he gives you your answer you will know what to improve.
But most likely he has some other hang ups that don't involve you at all and it has made him unavailable to women .
So don't hang yourself up on him and start finding beauty in yourself and when you do that maybe you will realize he wasn't the one for you!
2006-10-04 19:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by i love my 2 girls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.He may be busy,ha may not have checked his mails,can't u call him up.
2.Try to learn something new to keep ur mind busy,this way U'll get out of the stress u r facing and will know something new.
3.life is too short to be unhappy,too short to be angry,so enjoy every moment of life as it comes b'coz once gone the time will not return for u.
2006-10-04 21:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by swami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was your best friend and missing him badly.but he has some ambitions,some target to complete in life so he is after that.if he is missing you he will call you or if hes not interested in you he will avoid you.so try to go out on a short vacation , do some new things some cooking, learn something new and try to come out of the tangle
2006-10-05 02:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by toliagoldstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i dont no how r u , but one thing i know very well about you that you r creazy about you bf. he is not replay your mail kay pata he have some problem than he was not replaying your mail,but dont think lots of him bcoz he is not your life your life is your prsent not your past so constrate your present so your future make prefect if u thik about your bf than you distroy your and your parents dreams so pls forget him and costrante your work bcoz love is a only part of life not a heart of life.
thanks
amit j
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2006-10-05 01:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by amit_jaluka2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of brooding of the past, lit up your life. There are millions and millions on this planet. Just don't bother what you get, but give luv to all others whether they need it or not. tomorrow you will have thousands to knock your door, almost envying your guy.
To start with, you can show your luv to me !!! I'm ready.
2006-10-05 00:58:35 · answer #9 · answered by RASUNA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he is too busy for you, so i say find a new one and keep a truckin girl. i know its hard, dealt with it many times. But you can do it, find another guy that can make you laugh 10 times more than he did. Good luck!
2006-10-04 19:30:44 · answer #10 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to forget him by changing your mind towards some social activities.
2006-10-05 04:54:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋