one og my very good friend has gone abroad since nearly a month... we were very close be4 he left... we used to be on text msgs every time of the day.. but when we left it looked like we had parted ways... i kept my pace and mailed him one a week.. he never bothered to reply... he never bothered to tell me anything... i expected him to tell me as we were sooooooo close... im totally mind fcked and depressed to think y would he do that... i felt more bad bcause i really like him...i told my self i wont nudge him at all to reply but i couldnt resist yesterday and asked him "are you eva going to reply to my mails" he replied sayin he never got any....
and then hes like wait let me check my junk... and after that he went offline..
P.S- i haved mailed him before and if my mail wen tin my inbox that time..... there is no chance it can go in his junk this time.... i think he is lying...
what do i do?i really like him and cant imagine of not thinking about him,,, which just makes my cry :'(
2006-10-04 12:12:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is lying
move onnnnnnnnnn with ur life
2006-10-04 22:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by Manu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he should have got any other friend who is more caring or understandable than u or he would have diverted his mind to reject u, dont be sad, c this is life, u should not sit for hours for all these, u have many challenges to face, go get prepared for that, leave all the past. just think it is gone and not in your hands.. go to bed tonight cry loudly as much as u can lastly wipe it and take a promise that u will not think of that anymore and wake in the morning as if u r a new born baby.. All the best
2006-10-04 22:44:52 · answer #2 · answered by K.R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my dear, this had happened to every one of us, not just you.. I can see that you it's more than friendship, its love with, and love hurts a lot.... I can imagine that you are still very young, is it ??
It actually happened with me years ago, I did suffer a lot, I did cry and was very much depressed..
My advise to you is:
Just ignore him, if he runs away then there is no way on earth to get him back, if you try and try, it will not help, you will just be humiliating your self and he will run away for good..
Just bare the sadness and depression, it will pass, might take a week and might take 4 weeks, but for sure it will not take for ever.. you will heal, don't worry... believe me, you will get over it..
2006-10-04 12:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by alo-bello 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's time for you to just cut your losses and move on.. You're hurting yourself over him while he is laughing it off at your expense. I'm sorry that you had to deal with that, but you sort of let yourself become way too emotionally attached to a guy who isn't even your boyfriend. You've obviously spent alot of energy and time trying to connect with this guy who has no interest in you..imagine if you had invested that time in something worthwhile.
I'm sure you have other friends. Try to do more things with them, or get a hobby or something. He was able to change, and you can too.
Good luck to ya.
2006-10-04 12:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by La Voce 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you are not considering the circumstances he is under. What if he has no access to mail at that place or he is too bsy. I think you shouldnt be negative. I bet he misses you more then you do. The temptation for receiving a mail will never stop. He will reply to your mails. Relax.
2006-10-04 12:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by Kiran urf msa sis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey buddy, just relax... hes a different sort of guy, i bet, hes not for you. Hes not caring and hes not trustworthy, I can say that...
so why waste time, i know how love affects our love... itzok 2 learn... you learned a lesson now,,, so relax there are lot of fish in the sea... it may be difficult to forget now, but as the time passes no one should tell you to forget, it just happens. so dont worry. and dont think of him.. thats it
2006-10-04 12:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by kittu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's avoiding you and obviously hates you now, and probably sees you as a stalker, that's how guys are. You're stalking him while he's on vacation trying to relax, he doesn't want a friend like that. I'd forget about it, obviously he hates you now otherwise he wouldn't be lying and signing off.
2006-10-04 12:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they are lying and avoiding u dont bother about that because god gave those friends he can give u better friends like those if they lied to u they are not real friends.
2006-10-04 21:58:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him to the curb, he is a liar..or maybe he was giving you a hint..you know...let me check my junk mail in other words he put them along with his junk mail cus they werent important..so therefore move on and find yourself something or someone better to do...good luck and dont cry cus he is not worth your tears...
2006-10-04 12:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont let ur happiness depends on somebody. Not only now. throughout ur life. if ur happiness depends on somebody ur life is not in ur control.
As ur friend is concerned he may be busy or he may be lieing. In love and friendship U must have confidence on others.
2006-10-04 13:34:16 · answer #10 · answered by abcdefg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes lyin which means try to find other things to occupy your time men can be pigs but women do their share to
2006-10-04 12:16:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋