2006-10-04 12:07:13 · 25 answers · asked by Too Cool For Me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.
But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.
And ANY guy can learn how...
2006-10-04 12:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by Noble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of the most attractive men... ones with a personality that just drew me to them... call it magnetism, chemistry, aura, whatever... some of those men who I found to be insanely attractive... meaning I was SO attracted to them... were not handsome in a conventional sort of way, so I'd have to say personality... except... it's more than that... it's a connection.
In any event, it's not looks really... but more "A LOOK" or something.
Whenever I would meet a new man, I would look at how attractive I thought them to be at the beginning of the date... and how attractive I thought them to be at the end of the date. If they got better looking... they were keepers. If by the end of the date their personality had made them less attractive than they were right out of the gate, I didn't go out with them again.
Sometimes it's just about the way you get to know someone and appreciate their appearance because it's coupled with the way you feel about them and the way they make YOU feel when you're with them.
Long winded, I know... but I'm 47 and did a lot of internet dating between marriages so I met a lot of guys and the ranking system got very complex - lol
2006-10-04 19:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by thegirlwholovedbrains 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously Looks is what initailly attracts ppl to one another, but honestly with me I'd rather take an ugly man with a great personality than a man that looks good with a sh*tty personality. Any day of the week :)
2006-10-04 19:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Shortie♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When women just meet a man, they really want to see a nice face. His personality comes next tho. Dont get me wrong and think its all about the looks but wen they first meet you, try snf look your best.
2006-10-04 19:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with everybody...outside appearance is what we see since we are human and judgemental. so probably when you first meet a girl looks matter since it sparks her interest and turns her on. if you take the time to get to know each other however that is what really matters. perhaps if your lloks don't seem to be catching a girl's interest try to just spend a little bit of time with that woman every day or send her cute and sweet poems or think of some sweet ideas that may spark her interest
2006-10-04 19:14:19 · answer #5 · answered by Amez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bit of both:
For women like me...looks make you look back and want to check things out...personal traits that attract you will make you stay. And when someone comes to love you, you will become the most attractive in their eyes.
2006-10-04 19:09:55 · answer #6 · answered by Robin F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well looks are always a plus, however, women are more intelectual than men, we want to know more about what he has to offer.....dont get me wrong.....nobody, men or women, look at a guy for the first time and say "his mind is sexy" looks are an important factor with and sex. so i'd say they are both important but most women will not choose a guy just based on his looks....like most guys do
2006-10-04 19:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me i'd have to be honest and say a lil of both, Looks arent all that important to me, they dont have to be a perfect ten, but i do want them to dress and present himself like a respectable young man, someone who can prove 2 me that he respects and loves himself, and ofcourse personality is important he has to be funny sweet, understanding, and Honest, has to have some moral values, some integrity.
2006-10-04 19:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by Here2Help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks. Just being honest but you know it's true. When you first meet someone you have to be physically attracted to them first before learning more about their personality.
2006-10-04 19:09:32 · answer #9 · answered by ash5907 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to statistics in US ,70% prefers a good and fun personality that makes them laugh.
2006-10-04 19:15:43 · answer #10 · answered by d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋