I don't know what to do! Please help! I want to be supportive, but I don't want to get in to deep! But she's my BFF and watever happens I know i'll always love her and the baby! But please give me advice!
2006-10-04 11:59:58 · 20 answers · asked by Stephanie N 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
just be there when she need a shoulder to cry on or just some on liten to her.. not much you can do since you are 13.. good luck
2006-10-04 12:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by ♥cutemamma♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't take any of our advice, dear. The advice is: DON'T HAVE THE BABY. You are much too young to become a parent. Your friend or the baby could suffer - perhaps a deformity or both even die. Also, stay away from the penis. If you have a boyfriend, keep your clothes ON and him, too. If you play around with wieners, you'll get pregnant eventually, and it's not worth it. You may think it's a 'fun' thing to do, but you'll pay ther biggest price and most likely, the boy won't be there. He'll go stick his d!ck in someone else. Abort it, and be careful from NOW ON and be glad that in some SANE areas of the world, you still have a choice over YOUR OWN body!! Forget about sex for a few more years. That's my advice.
2006-10-04 12:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well take a deep breath and relax u dont know if she really is pregnant! and if she is be happy and supportive i know theres not much u can do since u are only 13 but just be there when she has to talk to u! tell her no matter what u will be there for her! and her child! if she needs a helping had u will be there for her dont give up on her im sure she wouldnt give up on u!
2006-10-04 12:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words of advice: Don't Panic. First get a home pregnancy test. Lots and lots of women think they might be pregnant when they're not. The problem now is not that you know if she's pregnant. It's that you don't know. So find out.
2006-10-04 12:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her tell her parents then give the baby to me.really she should really putr the baby up for adoption.Your friend is in no condition to raise a child now.Hope everything works out .
2006-10-04 12:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by wvcountrygirl_93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all your 13 im sorry for what im going to say but here goes... shes having the baby not you. remember that! yeah i know shes your Best Friend but you have your whole life ahead of you so please dont get tangle up with all that. yeah you can help her, and give her support, but the main person who should be doing this should be the daddy and your not that person
2006-10-04 12:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by labonitameli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You as her best friend should be there to support her, but she is the only one that is gonna decide what she's gonna do in case she is pregnant. I hope you help her make a wise decision. Good Luck to your friend.
2006-10-04 12:06:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
youo might be too supportive of her in all her activities that you both didn't realize that pregnancy is possible for very very very young people like you.
The next time you want to be supportive, be mature enough to lead your friend to do what is right. And if in doubt, ASK YOUR PARENTS or somebody MATURE enough whom you trust.
2006-10-04 12:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by Busy Diyosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not having the baby so relax, but support your best friend
2006-10-04 12:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's pregnant her momma needs to put her foot up her butt.And she don't need to be having no babies,but I don't believe in abortions and I hope her parents don't either,her parents need to teach her a lesson and let that baby tear her up.
2006-10-04 12:13:42 · answer #10 · answered by Sister Queen Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋