Why do I feel this way?

Question

Ok there's this guy in one of my classes that I like......and 2 days ago one of his friends told me after class that the guy that I like likes me.......and i think that it is true becuase he even acts like he does like me sometimes.....but now sometimes I feel like i don't like him as much as i used to.....if he were to ask me out, i would still say yeah but i don't know why i feel this way now......before he was like a major crush and now he's just like a regular crush......like before i would think of him 24/7 and now i still do think of him through out the day but not as often.why do i feel this way all of the sudden? I'm confused! And incase you wondering i'm in the 9th grade.

Answer 1

As you grow, your likes change. Sometimes, when you get what you want to a certain degree, the desire for that isn't that strong. I would recommend that you just strike up a conversation with him. See if you have any common interests and go from there. He may turn out to be a good friend.

Answer 2

when u just started liking him u had this confusing sensation in u that said "does he like me?" and that "kept u on ur toes" all the time. u didn't know what was going to happen next. when u found out that he liked u, that sensation left because the tension was let out, u knew that he liked u so the "suprise" was there and then left. i know what it's like, wondering all the time if that person likes u too. u shouldn't worry about it, if u think this guy is a good, conciderate, caring & loving person, u should go out with him if he asks. im here for ya if u have any questions

Answer 3

This is because forbidden fruit always holds the greatest attraction for us humans. Meaning that what we can't have is what we want most. Once we can have it, it's not as much fun or as appealing as we once thought it would be. You're young, live life, have fun, don't get too hung up on high school romances.

Answer 4

You feel this way because now you know that he likes you and that probably ruined it for you because there is no thrill anymore, knowing that he likes you too. You should probably go up to him and introduce yourself and maybe you will make a new friend. You never know what might happen.

Answer 5

Well...sometimes you may have a big "crush' on someone because there is just some charm about them. Now that you know that he might like you it's not that big deal because you might feel more nervous around him then romantically happy.

Answer 6

I was the same way in 9th grade. It's all about the conquest. Once you know you "got 'em", they aren't quite as desirable. Very normal reaction.

Answer 7

Because he's attainable now, you like him slightly less. You should ask yourself what you want to happen with him. Will you like him even less when you're actually together? Maybe you shouldn't do anything.

Answer 8

hey i'm a ninth grader to and i think u should not make such a be deal about it.
and if he does ask u out if u feel like u should go out and see if u like him and if u don't u know.
good luck :)

Answer 9

when boys act like they like you sometimes you relize you don't like them in that way anymore because you got to know them better and you just answered my question so i answered yours i like to make friend but i don't trust people with any info besides my age.

Answer 10

I don't really kno, i wish i had the answer to that question myself, i go thru the exact same thing!!!!! i dunno i guess you're feelings can change, sorry I couldnt be of much help. But im only in tenth grade myself.